When we married he didn't have a bachelor party because I was pregnant and he didn't think it was fair. We are having a house party with friends and it would be a surprise. I would rather get one for him, than for him to go to a club without me...but I've never seen him get a lapdance and I'm not sure how I'll feel watching it. This is something he would never expect, but would love it and me:)
The kids will be far away....
2007-01-31 09:19:04 · 42 answers · asked by kukla 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes I would get my man a stripper ... I trust him and would enjoy seeing him have fun ... in fact I'd probably have more fun then him ... you're not inviting her over to have sex with him ... and she's not going to do anything inappropriate as long as you set the rules before the party ... me & my man go to Strip Clubs together ... you said the lapdance might tip you off a little ... just think of it this way - watch her move ... take notes and learn what she's doing - so when your husband gives you his big huge " Thank You " in the bedroom - show him how much YOU want to please him - but it will be even better since you already know his buttons ... no need to get jealous either ... it shows him your trust ... and shows him you still have a bit of spunk left in you ... lol ... I say go for it ... it will be fun ... !
2007-01-31 10:28:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sounds like you're uncomfortable with the idea, so I'd pass on it. He passed on the bachelor party, so I'd wager he probably wouldn't want the stripper. Even better, make him think he's getting a stripper. Get him all excited about it. Then, when he thinks she's arrived, slip away quietly and get into your stripper outfit and go out to the front door. You'll be the surprize!! You don't have to get too crazy with it if you'd be uncomfortable stripping in front of friends and family, whjom I'm sure would get a kick out of it too.
2007-01-31 09:31:27 · answer #2 · answered by Bayou Boy in Tx 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The fact that you are even considering this means that you have great trust in him. He will respect this trust and will enjoy it without guilt, which he would have if he did this (or was given this by friends ) at a club.
So, YES, do it, and be prepared for an extra special night of passion afterwards, as he shows you his gratitude in the only way men can express these sort of feelings.
2007-01-31 09:28:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why whet his appetite for another woman? Later that night he'll be wondering what it would be like to have her in the sack. He will be sexually aroused by the stripper, so if you don't mind that then do it. I don't buy the excuse that you'll be in bed with him later bc really he'll be thinking about the earlier arousal and her face & body to get turned on with you and you'll end up the "receptacle." If you love your man, you make sure you are the one he gets aroused by - not another female. Surely you are sexy enough to pull this off on your own.
2007-01-31 11:09:44 · answer #4 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm with you. I think a stripper will only make him think about what he's missing outside of marriage. I wouldn't open that window considering the state of the marriage currently.
2016-05-23 23:48:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are comfortable doing it for him then go for it. have a talk with the girl in advance and tell her yuor reservations and ask her that if you say to stop that she must do it. Devise a signal or a code word for her and you and if you give that signal or code word then she must stop and move on to someone else, maybe even you.
I ahve done many bach and birthday parties and I always respected the other girl. many time the 3 of us would end up having some fun after the party as well, you might consider that as well.
Good luck!
Bobbie Jo
2007-01-31 10:25:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Why not, there are services that provide strippers for family type partys and it doesn't have to be raunchy or dirty, if you make the call you can set the guidelines with the service. In a party of that type they usually make for a good laugh.
2007-01-31 09:23:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you crazy? That's like an invite to cheat.No way would I do that. It's like giving him the go ahead to cheat with a beautiful women who's body is probably better then yours! No way! If she thinks it OK this time maybe next time I'll carry it a ittle further!
2007-01-31 09:31:36 · answer #8 · answered by Wow!guitar 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My wife did for my 39th birthday. There was even a portable stripper pole set-up her. But then again my wife is not the jealous-type either.
2007-01-31 09:44:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why hire a stipper? Why not give him a lap dance yourself? Why don't you strip for him as if you were the stripper? That may be the better idea then actually hiring one.
2007-01-31 09:41:48 · answer #10 · answered by LOS 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋