What's happening to me????

Question

My mom and I dont like each other anymore, we havent talked to each other [not a single word] for two weeks and have been ingoring each other. It really hurts me and I want her to see me hurt so she'll know. I've also been gaining weight like crazy. I weighed myself, like 6 days ago and today I weighed myself again...I gained 6 pounds and feel heavier and look chubier. I've been eating junk food and I ususally am a well get together girl and orangized but not these past couple of weeks and I keep crying because im gaiinng weight [its horrible]. I let myself go

My grades are falling apart. I made two F's on my report card. 54 AND 59. Whats happening to me?

I'm ususally all bubly and in a happy mood.

My crush also has a gf now...whats happening? I'm gonna turn into a homeless fat chick on the streets

I was a straight a student and i was organized and clean and neat. I weighed about 100 pounds before and gained to 108 pounds.

I'm ususally happy and perky but not these past couple days.....and i'm starting to cry again.....help

I hate the way I'm starting to act, I've changed sooo much and i keep crying...!!!!

Reading your stupid answers are getting me more depressed!

Answer 1

I'm kind of in the same boat also. It's hard to get motivated and out of that rut that you've dug yourself into. Apologize to your mom for the way you've been acting. Tell her how you feel and that you need her support to get back to where you were. The hardest part is taking that first step. It will get easier for you day by day. Good luck :)

Answer 2

I'm going to assume you are either in Jr. high or high school right? When I went through a depressing period in 8th grade i went from 110 to 140 in less then 3 months, started failing my classes and lost some friends. I hate to sound cliche but it's a normal teenage thing you go through. There are two different things you can do though. 1) just sit back and eat away and fail your classes and not talk to your mom or 2) sit down and analyze what went wrong. Put your self on an eating plan (not necessarily a diet) to control junk food. Allow cookies after a meal so you won't eat as many. Get enough water and veggies and when you want a donut, ask if you've already had your sweets for the day. As for school, go talk to the teachers you are failing and tell them you are having problems at home and want to know how you can get back on track. Make a schedule to do homework and still have time for fun and don't put things off until last minute. About your mom, I can't say exactly how to handle it but I know that when my mom and I fight all I have to do is go hug her and start crying and apologize and she forgives me. If you can just try talking to her and ask for your help in getting back on track. If you want any other advice, just e-mail me sweetheart. I know how hard it can be.

Answer 3

Sound like depression to me. I suffer from depression and it is easy to fall into a rut when you are not emotionally and physically stable. I would suggest patching things up with your mom, right away. YOur weight gain is from all the crap you're eating because you are depressed. Quit eating all that, patch things up with your mom, get your grades up, and forget about the crush. You'll find someone who is available. The love life is the least of your worries for now. Get out there and get some sun and fresh air. Winter time can cause symptoms of depression. This could be a seasonal thing. Call your doc and make an appointment too.Some meds might be needed. Try to get your mom to understand what you are going through. Good luck.

Answer 4

It sounds like you're going through a period of depression. Depression isn't abnormal, it happens to most people at some point in their lives. If you feel it's taking over your live (it sounds like you feel that way) you should talk to your doctor. The doc can either get you into some sort of therapy/counseling to figure out what the underlying cause of your depression is, or prescribe a mild anti-depressant to help you get through this "rough spot". If it's lasting more than a few weeks, I'd get help.
And really, 8 pounds isn't that bad of a weight gain!!!

Answer 5

OK, I have a feeling you are a teen. I believe you are very depressed. Depression leads to emotional eating and weight gain. You are probably dealing with your emotions by using food to comfort yourself. You are not abnormal for doing this but it is a good to recognize it and find another outlet for your emotions. You are hurt and angry with your mother. You need to break the silence and talk it out. She knows you're hurt but so is she. It takes a lot of guts to deal with problems head on, but you can do it. I'm not letting your mom of the hood because it's incredibly immature of her to not speak to you but you need to be the right thing and end the silence. Also, it's normal to feel upset when your crush 'crushes' you. Be patient with yourself and give yourself some love. A way to do that is stop the emotional eating, start eating regular meals, exercise (this helps with depression), see the school counselor about your depression and really refocus on your studies. I know it looks like a lot but you can do it. Love yourself by helping yourself. Holding on to pain and anger never helps anyone. Good luck!

Answer 6

well first of all i'm really sorry me and my mom get in fight sometimes so first apologize to her and dont just say sorry and walk away sit down and talk to her it instantly makes you feel better or if you can't really talk without crying write her a sincere note. that works too. another thing is because you eat a lot of junk food you dont get filled up which makes you feel like you need to eat more either that or you're bored and you have nothing to do. about your grades people who are happier usually do better in school. so first fix things with your mom and you'll end up doing better in school. if i made you more depressed i'm sorry. things like these happen to me sometime so i just put on my ipod and try and think out what to do. hope i helped a little!

Answer 7

well im 23 and ive had a hard life me and my mom always had problems and i did end-up on the streets i had to quit school and work a job to pay my rent just be couse i was to grown to say sorry to my mom trust me nothing is worth ur relationship with ur mom she will forgive u no matter what im shur she loves u with all her heart also the weight gain could be just part of growing up or stress u could have gotin taller u wont stay the same size the rest of ur life i wish i was the size i was 6 yrs ago just walk around ur hood and this will help stress weight and get u out of the house or go to a gym and as far as ur crush just couse he looks good dont mean he is and im shur he aint the only boy in ur school or wher ever he is and just couse he has a gf dont mean its gonna last u might hook up with him later u have the rest of ur life trust me this probily wont be the last of ur hard times in life but u cant let them get u down keep ur head up or problims will be all u have its like weeds if u let them take over they will u will lurn and grow both mentaly and phisicaly all of this is just part of it

Answer 8

I know what it feels like to be crying and not knowing why or how to stop or anything. For one thing, you're okay weight wise. Seriously, from 100-108 pounds, it's not hurting you babe. Don't turn to food though, you really just need to talk about it with her. Why are you mad at her? Is it your fault or hers?

Answer 9

i know how u feel. me and my mom dont get along at all. just seems like everything i do she gets mad about....

Answer 10

sell your mother to the gypsies