She just called me and is all desperate. I'm not sure what to tell her. Please help.
2007-01-31 08:34:26 · 30 answers · asked by Banshee 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
She needs to think long and hard about this guy most cased he will NEVER I mean NEVER change and she needs to get away from him life is too short to be scared all the time. Trust me I know my dad was that way and my first husband was and now I am as happy as can b because I didn't sell my self short this is my life and I will live it on my terms she needs 2 also......
2007-01-31 08:41:55 · answer #1 · answered by Happi @ss 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's best in these circumstances to minimise the chances of it happening again. Planning is what counts in these situations. She needs to decide if she can live with this man (and it is her choice.) If she can't then help her plan a way out that ensures her safety, i.e. by kidding on everything is normal whilst secretly arranging a way to disappear.
I'm not an expert in relations but I do know that the advice some people have given here often just makes things worse. Phoning some helpline is probably a good idea as well but don't let him know about it.
2007-01-31 16:54:58 · answer #2 · answered by D.F 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Tell her to get some self-respect. She shouldn't let any one mistreat her and especially HIT on her. I don't know why people get in and stay in abusive relationships. You can always find another man and a better one at that. She should end things before things really get out of hand.
2007-01-31 17:25:18 · answer #3 · answered by ♥♪MissSoprano♫♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about she pull a Lorena Bobbit on him?
She need to pack her stuff and bounce because next time it will be more than a slap.
2007-01-31 16:41:20 · answer #4 · answered by sugar_pink_candy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to leave him, and fast....Theres no "I'm sorry, it will never happen again" from him. That is the beginning of an abusive relationship. Oh, and does she have big male relatives/friends that can go kick his a*s?
2007-01-31 16:37:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to get out of there and to call the police.
2007-01-31 16:39:45 · answer #6 · answered by queendebadow 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No person should ever be hit. Call the police have her file charges and let her stay with you! She needs all the comfort she can get. Whatever you do...do not let her stay with that loser!
2007-01-31 16:40:15 · answer #7 · answered by lizzy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hit him in the face with the hot pan she cooked the chicken in or throw the grease from the chicken in his face... Call the police!!!
2007-01-31 16:39:26 · answer #8 · answered by Its me!!! :) 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Call the police and get her to a shelter or take her in. Encourage her to leave that bastard
2007-01-31 16:39:20 · answer #9 · answered by FoxyFoxy, Kickass Drama Queen 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Violent persons are not to be admired. It's in the Bible, Proverbs 3:31, NIV. "Do not envy a violent man or choose any of his ways."
RUN!!!
2007-02-01 18:56:10 · answer #10 · answered by ipc.1008 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋