I am in love w/ someone who does'nt even know I am alive and I feel sad like 45% of the time. And the other times I am happy. I am also listening to sad songs but they don't seem to help.
2007-01-31 08:26:22 · 8 answers · asked by Helena Winkler 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
And sometimes the sad songs help me!
2007-01-31 08:41:31 · update #1
if he doesnt know you're alive that a big problem, his problem. not yours hoeny!!!
Get over him, go out with the girls, talk about it, get you a new man, a new hair do and crunk up that tune.
No such man is worth your precious heart, brain activity and time.
2007-01-31 08:36:48 · answer #1 · answered by reene2g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to psychiatry depression is when you are sad for no objective reason. Honestly I think depression always has a reason, even if you are unaware of the reason or you have forgotten the reason. Perhaps depression is when you become sad for a reason but then get stuck in that sad state even when the situation has long passed. Although on the other hand depression is generally defined as being sad, so in that sense yes you are depressed. But in the case everyone is depressed from time to time. Honestly I would get to know this person and if they are nice to you and show some interest perhaps ask them if they'd like to go and do something with you. At first I wouldn't ask them if they wanted to go on a date but just see if they'd like to just go and do something as friends. If he doesn't put forth any effort or show no real interest then I guess just move on. Sure you may feel sad because of rejection for a little while but try to get past it and not dwell on it. I know it's easier said than done in that situation though.
2007-01-31 17:30:18 · answer #2 · answered by Fitty Cent Worth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be. but your question is kind of general. If you want to be happier, listen to songs that are happy.. Also think of happy times, read something funny, watch a funny tv or movie. get some extra sunshine. But think positive.
2007-01-31 16:31:53 · answer #3 · answered by lynda 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you approach him and explain how you feel? If you get a cold answer ,you will move on,and find someone who really loves you back.
It's better to have lost at love,than to have never loved at all--90's band 'Poison".
Some famous person said it first,but i don't recall who.
You'll be O.K in the end. I promise.
2007-01-31 16:44:34 · answer #4 · answered by HITLERY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could be depressed, i suggest listening to more upbeat songs, try to focus on things you like (not guys), make it a goal to be happy at least 60% of the time. give yourself some room to breath, give yourself a little *me* time =)
2007-01-31 16:32:08 · answer #5 · answered by aphotic nostrum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just remember on word "this will pass too" when ever you r happy say it and whenever you r sad say it
2007-01-31 16:35:13 · answer #6 · answered by slim s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be bipolar. That is when your mood goes up and down.Talk to a doctor.
2007-01-31 16:34:11 · answer #7 · answered by domojj24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are heartbroken, not depressed, don't worry it will all get better, hang in there
2007-01-31 16:30:30 · answer #8 · answered by Yeah I am me!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋