two nights in a row, my long-distant bf has signed off MSN within 10 mins of me going online. He could permanently block me, but it seems he wants to make it obvious that he's avoiding me... you get what I mean. also haven't heard from him for nearly a week. I know you guys are thinking "He's soooo not into you" but I can't help but think why the hell is he acting immature with the MSN thing?!!
By the way, I've known him for two years! he can't do this and get away with it, do you think I should just call him and tell him to just tell me he ain't interested instead of keeping me hanging on, it's pathetic!
2007-01-31 08:21:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It takes very mature and dedicated couple to work out a long distance relationship. Statistics are not in favor of a good turnout.
I have no idea who you are but that does not matter because we all deserve a good LASTING and TRUSTING relationship.If the Love that you share is real then you should not even have to worry about anything as juvenile as this. Your other half SHOULD be seeking you over the "long distance" as well, and not just one sided.
2007-01-31 08:33:23 · answer #1 · answered by Blueryno 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well games are for children, and getting back at someone just because they are no longer interested in you is vendictive, avoid being both and just send him an email saying that it's over. I know exactly what you're going through I had a long distance relationship on MSN, and it seemed like he did the same thing. So one day I left him an email and I told him that he was being a child and if he didn't want to talk to me that's all he had to say. Later on that night we talked and it turned out that he wasn't ignoring me, he had been away for a week and his brother had been using the computer. You know whenever you put on automatic sign in, whenever the computer comes on it does it anyway. The point is you never know, but he'll find some way to get in contact with you. Don't call him, don't write him. He and I didn't even work out, I'm with someone who I love now and who is the one for me, so maybe by trying to salvage what you have you're actually wasting your time. Let him know it's over, if it was a mistake he'll get back to you. In 1-2 days if he doesn't. Move on, you deserve so much better sweetie! Good luck!
2016-05-23 23:37:28 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, just forget him! He does not have the nerve to tell you it is over! Don't let him get to you. You deserve better! When he does call or want to talk to you just act like you don't know who he is and hang up! Find someone closer, long distance hardly ever works! Try permanently blocking him! You are to good for this jerk!
2007-01-31 08:31:27 · answer #3 · answered by dshworthsoftball 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know what f*** that s*** about pretending u dont care ofcourse u do . there is nothing wroing with him knowing it bothered u. i mean u were together 4 2 years i think the least he can do is give u an explanation. tell him not to be such a coward and let u know what s going on. that u deserve an explanation. . i personaly dont like that Crap about pretending not to care. why do i have to play those games. yes u are upset and u have every reason to be.
2007-01-31 08:35:29 · answer #4 · answered by Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like ...
a manipulation tatic, playing with your emotions.
If you are ready to move on, don't even give in to it. Just move on. Maybe one day he will grow up, unless his tactic keeps on working.
By him signing off when you come on intentionally shows his not man enough to tell you whats been bothering him.
2007-01-31 08:31:08 · answer #5 · answered by Cathy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you should just do that cuz if he's ignoring u, he ain't worth it. maybe he has another gf, that why he's avoiding u. u should have a closer and strong relationship that doesn't involves long distance. Just phone him!!
2007-01-31 08:43:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes with dating you never officially break up because people can be cowards because they don't want to be yelled at...basically he has broken up with you...so let it go and never bother him again or else he will tell everyone that you are a stalker when you are clearly not!
2007-01-31 08:25:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why give him the satisfaction of knowing your upset by it..
by acting like you don't give a f**k is much better i think
2007-01-31 08:26:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him but in undircte way
2007-01-31 08:26:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋