my bff has a huge crush on my boyfriend but won't admit it what should i do?i love him and really like her.
2007-01-31 08:16:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ever heard the saying chicks b4 *****? no... okay well in my book friends come first...let her know that it bothers you. Also have trust in your man that hes only into you....she could have a huge crush on him ..this dosnt mean hes gonna have any feelings for her.
2007-01-31 08:21:59 · answer #1 · answered by sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's your best friend you should love her and him, the fact that you're best friend has a crush on your boyfriend shows that she is no friend of yours and she's the kind of person you can't trust, if you can't trust her then she's not your friend and you don't need to look over your back for someone whom you called your friend. Make sure that she likes him, but even if you feel that she likes him, don't hang out with her because that could mean big trouble. Good luck hon, and choose better friends and don't be so quick to give the title of your best friend away so quickly and easily.
2007-01-31 16:20:24 · answer #2 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she will not admit, then she is protecting your feelings and really cares about you. Tell her you know and it is ok, after all she is you bff so it is resonable she would like who you like. And be sure to tell her crushes are fine as long as they stay crushes.
2007-01-31 16:21:26 · answer #3 · answered by noblelady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really up to your boyfriend. If he is honest then he will not cheat on you for anyone. Talk to your friend again and let her know you will not be mad at her for telling the truth. She could be afraid she will lose you as a friend so that is why she is not saying anything.
2007-01-31 16:21:23 · answer #4 · answered by bluefairy421 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she really doesn't then. And if she does, well it's just a crush, not like she's definitely gonna act out on it or anything right? She's your best friend. Have some trust in her. Maybe try to hook her up with one of your guys friends......?
2007-01-31 16:20:12 · answer #5 · answered by Mandy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to her. Don't talk to her like in a bad attitude even thought I know it hurts you but if you talk to her calmly she will understand you. Talk to her in a place where you guys can be alone with no disturbance and tell her how you feel, if she is really your best friend she is going to be honest and tell you the truth.
2007-01-31 16:22:34 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ Can you help me? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how positive are you that your bff likes your boyfriend?
maybe shes just being nice to him since he is your boyfriend and shes a good friend?
2007-01-31 16:20:04 · answer #7 · answered by icingonthekake99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not your friend. Can't you see it? Friend just won't do that if she really cares about you. Stop meeting your bfff before you lose both of them.
2007-01-31 16:20:39 · answer #8 · answered by daisyleemie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wuts the big deal. as long as she hasnt made any moves on him or vice versa. if shes a true friend she wont do anything and ignore her feelings.
2007-01-31 16:25:00 · answer #9 · answered by blackraven254 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should not let her get too close with him cause she might end up backstabing you for him. my ex best friend did that and i havent talked to since and she brock up my relationship of 3 years with my ex bf and she went out with him for a few weeks and then he dumbed her. (which was funny) but ya i wouldn't let her get too close to him.
2007-01-31 16:20:19 · answer #10 · answered by cristie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋