will he or can he be there 4 her when she needs him,or will he 4 get she's there! how many other women is he with,he never had time 4 them then so why would he have time 4 them now.......I need to know ....if there is a man out there that love her and want to give her the world ,but the world she doesn't in order to be happy, all she needs is him,what should she do? be unhappy with a man that love her and will want sex sooner or later.....platonesque relations with the two at this time,I HAVE SAVED MYSELF for this man 4 a long time ,I know we live in different citys and we can't see each other when we like, but if he cares 4 me you would think he would call me or do anything to let me know he care and I'm not alone. I can move on with out him this I know,but my soul would pain for his love 4 a long time,he knows more about me then anyone will ever know b/c I will never let anyone in like that again I needed him to love me 4 me that why I told him all there was to know about me!!!!!!!
2007-01-31 08:13:27 · 10 answers · asked by Susan O 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why are you saving yourself for someone that has already pledged his life to someone else? Try to put yourself in the position of his wife - would you like to have your husband cheating on you with another woman? Probably not. The platonic thing is just a line to get you to feel sympathy for him. The best thing you could do for yourself would be to sever this relationship and find someone that is available.
2007-02-07 08:25:10 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a married man will never be yours. thats the mistake we women make we think that if show the man that we love them like no one else, that if we wait , but what does waiting really do it causes pain that will only last as long as you wait. are you not worth more then the pain you feel? why should you not love yourself more then you love any man .what do you think is so differnt about you that he wont cheat on you, your a better lover to be honest with you its not even about you it really about him. he is damaged goods , deep down inside of him he knows he is not man enough thats why he has to have other women. but really ask yourself how happy do you think you really be wondering who he is with. Isnt trust the foundation of a relationship. without 100% trust you only have misery. *** remember if you wait for something that is not yours, you might lose something that is meant for you.**** SEEK and you'll find. good luck.
2007-01-31 08:47:59 · answer #2 · answered by evelyn a 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This man you are talking about can't even be there for his
wife whenever she needs him, so what makes you think
that he will be there for you. Being a woman you should
not permit any man to treat you the way he does because
all it will cause is hurt and pain, which you are experien-
cing now, so let go, live your life, don't depend on him
for comfort, as you will never get it, and get yourself
togeather and use your time to look for someone that will
be there for you when you need him and for that to
happen he needs to be single. Good luck.
2007-01-31 13:57:53 · answer #3 · answered by RudiA 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
listen to yourself!!!Get over him. I was once in a similiar situation. And glad to tell you I am over him and am now married to the man God put in my life. Have a new baby and am imbarrassed when i think back about how stupid i was. Tell your story to as many people as you can. don't keep this to yourself, you'll soon wake up. This man does'nt deserve you and YES you will get over him quicker than you think. Turn your attention to something other than him. And stop listening to sad music, I know you are. At all cost avoid everything that reminds you of him.When you start thinking of him, quickly stop and think of something else. Good luck
2007-01-31 08:22:32 · answer #4 · answered by lisa_in_ok 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you're looking to a man married to another woman in another city to fulfill your needs of love, no wonder you're so distraught...because it ain't happenin'. Even if somehow he has convinced himself he has genuine feelings for you, and he leaves her, what then? Your relationship will have been the result of seeds of deciept. Is that any way to start a relationship?
2007-01-31 09:24:44 · answer #5 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only if he's married to you.
Otherwise, he'll never be there when you need him or when you're lonely.
My daughter dated 2 married men, and she's alone now.
Wait till the excuses start coming as to why he can't stay or meet or call you, add you will see what I mean.
2007-01-31 08:20:59 · answer #6 · answered by cookiemom 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't get involved with a married man. You'll always be the third leg ,and make their marriage miserable. Walk away now.
2007-02-08 02:09:17 · answer #7 · answered by kayneriend 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a married man that cheat's on his wife will cheat on you also sooner or later and a man that cheat's is in lust not true love
2007-02-06 08:01:12 · answer #8 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why are your thoughts stalking this MARRIED MAN. Stop and find someone of your own. He doesn't belong to you. He is married to someone else. He is married to someone else. He is married to someone else..........Now is that clear enough?
2007-02-08 05:58:21 · answer #9 · answered by 4HIM- Christians love 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it ! He's married thats Taboo! Leave him alone.
2007-02-08 05:49:16 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋