I am in The 7th grade and my BEST FRIEND and i like the same guy.We have been friends sence the very begining of 6th grade.We do not want our friendship to fall apart.We have trouble on who we should ask out first between the guys we both like.Please Help!
2007-01-31 08:09:37 · 24 answers · asked by BCSC SuperLeader 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Never let a guy come btw your friends, there are tons of guys out there, especially as young as you are. Friendships can last forever and they are harder to find.
2007-01-31 08:13:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea this happened to me last year. I'm in the 7th grade too! lol well yea theres not really much 2 do..if one of you dates him the other one will be jealous, rather if she will admitt to it or not. One thing you can do if you want your friendship with her more than a relationship with the guy is to MOVE ON!!! Find another guy. Guys will come and go but your friendships always last longer. Friends are always there for you..and guys, not so much. Plus, if one of you goes out with him, you'll probally end up breaking up soon anyways. Friendships are always more important! Hope this helps!
2007-01-31 08:18:05 · answer #2 · answered by ♥sugarbabe♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ask guys out and you're in the 7th grade? Out where? You seem a little young. Just remember at your age the attraction to the guy won't last but your best friend could be your best friend forever. Don't spoil it over something silly.
2007-01-31 08:14:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should let him pick who he wants. Never chose a guy over a girlfriend because i guarentee that this 7th grade boy will ditch u both in the end and u will both b alone.
2007-01-31 08:35:10 · answer #4 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even go there...chances are you'll loose your best friend and the guy nothing will ever come out of it...besides you are only in the 7th grade there are a lot of guys out there.
2007-01-31 08:14:07 · answer #5 · answered by Lizzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of other guys out there. Leave this one alone and each of you should look at other guys. Play it safe. Don't risk your friendship over a guy. They will come and go through the years. Trust me.
2007-01-31 08:14:00 · answer #6 · answered by courtneyscottusa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am kind of going through the same thing to, my friend and I like the same guy but we both talked and made a decision that none of us are going to hook up with him. FRIENDS COME FIRST.
2007-01-31 08:15:09 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ Can you help me? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people say friends beats the guy. For me on the other hand, let the better woman win!!!
2007-01-31 08:13:10 · answer #8 · answered by funfriend2008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly move on and look for someone new... friends are way more important. there are plenty of guys. dont mess a friendship up over one.
2007-01-31 08:14:36 · answer #9 · answered by norma n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her have him if your friendship with your best friend is important to you.
Guys come and go but friends can last a lifetime.
2007-01-31 08:13:40 · answer #10 · answered by Mightymo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋