O.K. People I need straight honesty here with this question, If you broke up with someone and you guys had a very serious relationship with each other and you were together for awhile, but you broke up, and know you've been broken up for at least a year or two and you just happen to see that person with someone New would it bother you, make you mad, make you sad, would you even care, How would you feel and Explain why, 10 points goes to whoever gives the best answer!!!
2007-01-31 08:04:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
At first I would be a little sad,but then I would get over it....everyone needs to move on once they are an Ex...Just remember the good times and smile and know when to walk away...
Just think where you are in your life right now..Are you happy? I'm happy beacause I have a handsome baby boy because I moved on....
2007-01-31 08:29:45 · answer #1 · answered by lazykat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frankly, If the break up you had is a good breakup, meaning the fire you had just dies down and no cheating or the third party as a cause of the break up. Then, yes, the feeling will come up. If it's the bad breakup, then I don't think so.
Taken that answer. For me, when It's done, it's done. Meaning no return and no 'LOVE in that way' feeling anymore because before I end it, I make sure I tried every single way to work that relationship out and, if it doesn't work out, then it's not my regret/loss. Yes, I cried a lot and would hope for nothing but to take that person back, but I moved on.
In short, If I see my Ex with a new 'special one' - I'd say to that new face 'Good luck with that'.
2007-01-31 08:13:27 · answer #2 · answered by TnT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I was married to a man who cheated on me numerous times, and when I saw him with another it would make me mad. Because I would think of the hurt he caused me and think that he deserved to be miserable. I was sad because I still loved the man he was. I then realized that I am better than that and for me to be mad or sad only made things worse for me not for them so I would then not even care. Mind you all these emotions came and went in less than a minute or two.
After all said and done I put on a Happy face and walked right by with my head held high because I knew after everything that we went through if I couldn't make him happy neither could she and he was eventually going to do the same thing to her.
2007-01-31 08:37:55 · answer #3 · answered by freyja5683 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I truly loved that person that I would be sad and jealous. I dated someone for 3 years and then I had to leave him cuz of some shity stuff he did. andI just found out he got married and it hurt my feels and made me sad cuz I was supose to be the girl he married. I think it is always hard when you see an Ex you loved with someone else. When you love someone even if they hurt you the love you have for them doesn't go away. True love is forever. Hope that helped you some.
2007-01-31 08:17:34 · answer #4 · answered by bnichole21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One main thing to always remember. An EX is an EX for a reason. And that reason never changes. Hind sight is always 20-20. Trust your past experience. Have confidence in your decisions.
2007-01-31 08:24:20 · answer #5 · answered by iambettyboop 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this sounds horrible, but I would be upset. However, not because I was really missing him, but because he is supposed to sit around and pine over me for the rest of his life, lol. He is supposed to be completely depressed and never think about another woman, even though I have been married with children for a very long time, lol. I know its horrible, but hey its a girl thing, lol.
2007-01-31 08:21:27 · answer #6 · answered by Chrissy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? They are an ex. The only reason to be jealous of seeing an ex with someone else would be if they were happy instead of suffering. I simply won't invest that kind of emotion in an ex.
2007-01-31 08:15:23 · answer #7 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it does. it happend to me. I was datting a guy for like a year and a half. through the whole relatiionship i always saw him like a good friend, for the simple fact that i'm a lesbian. at first i was using him to cover up to everyone that i was datting a gurl. then i got to acttually care for him. i was also really into drugs and alcohol well actually cuz of him. stupid me. so i would use him to buy me the drugs and alcohol. i actually became more into it cuz he would do them and give them to me. well when we had like 6 7 months together i ended up pregnant of him. of course me being a lesbian really never wanted a child well not now. but he would always say he wanted a kid so i was willing to give him his dream. well when i told him that i was pregnant he said it wasn't him and he didn't want it wat was i gonna do about it. well i was stressing hiding that i'm a lesbian that was pregnant and i hate him dat when i was 4 months i lost it. he of course wasn't there. i hated him but still didn't leave him cuz i had gonne back to d drugs. well i ended up breaking up with him cuz i hated him soo much. a couple of months later i saw him with this gurl. even after all dat he had done it still bothered me it hurted me and i didn't want to see him with her. but i was no one to say cuz i left him for a gurl. i guess why it hurted was cuz i had gonne use to him and he was my comfort zone. and now he was gonna be some one elses
2007-01-31 08:25:49 · answer #8 · answered by jbhennessy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel sad about the good times that are gone but life goes on.
2007-01-31 08:23:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it would bother me. Even if I was totally over the guy and logically believed that "she can have him!", I think it is healthy and normal for all of us to secretly wish someone stupid enough to let us go would just pine away forever...
2007-01-31 08:11:38 · answer #10 · answered by AJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋