My wife 28 I am 29 we have been married for five years.
2007-01-31 08:00:13 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hmmm well if all seems to be going that way why are you wanting approval here or to say its normal?What is normal for one may not be normal for others.. I have seen this happen with lots of couples playing out fantasies and some it w3rks because they have a strong relationship.others their relationships folds like a stack of cards..One thing before you commit to any of this make sure its just not a fantasy and that when it happens that your feelings arent going to change.. make sure.. absolutely without a doubt..and by the way from what i understand this is a common fantasy ..I read somewhere on a site..wish I still had it to link to you about why men and women fantasized about seeing their mates with another person.. It sounded as if it was normal but cautioned about knowing how strong your relationship is before hand and also the benefits and the negatives of the whole thing..Good luck to you and hope you make the right choice..
2007-01-31 10:07:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Watching My Wife Go Black
2016-10-05 07:53:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have been married for only five years and you want your wife to sleep with another man? What is wrong with you? Is there something that you want to do with another woman and this is why you want your wife to have sex with another man?
Are you into men and women I assume so since you want to see her have sex with an endowed man.
I think that this marriage is heading for trouble.
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2007-01-31 09:29:13 · answer #3 · answered by teddybear 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you're just asking for trouble. If you want to partially fulfill this fantasy, I would recommend a black dildo. You still get the visual of black and white, but it won't end badly. And trust me, it will end badly if you convince her to sleep with another man, any man. You will always wonder if he was better, did she like it more than you, does she want him more than you, etc. You're relationship will go down hill from there.
2007-01-31 10:37:40 · answer #4 · answered by benjis.girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many men have a fantasy of watching their wife with another man, some with men of different races or a bigger penis. My recommendation is to sign-up on a swinger's dating site like Swing Lifestyle http://www.swinglifestyle.com , Swappernet http://www.swappernet.com , or Swingular http://www.swingular.com . Then start looking for single males that fit your criteria.
And as far as those saying "She'll leave you for him" or "it'll ruin your marriage." They know very little about life, love, and living fantasies within their relationships. They say that out of their own personal fears, insecurities, and biases.
For some good, objective information, check-out The Swingers Board. It's a place for those that want to swing, as well as those that do, to discuss things like this.
2007-01-31 08:35:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just what kind of a guy are you anyway, some sick perv? I got a better idea...why don't YOU sleep with the black dude and let her be free to practice her tricks on anyone that chances along? You both need a shrink.
2007-01-31 08:15:36 · answer #6 · answered by J.M.C 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Be very careful what you ask for. As they say "once you go black you never go back" My ex, note "EX" went down this line because I confided in Her that I had been with a black Woman b4 I met Her. Naturally She had loads of q's as She had never been with a black man. After about 8 months of teasing me about going with a black man and fantasing while *******, I finally gave in and agreed. Well I think She would say She forced me but never mind. She enrolled Herself on a dating agency (not on the net) and about 6 weeks later She had Her first "Date" with Her black man. I was at my wits end. I begged Her not to go, told Her She'd had Her fun teasing me and to forget it. No way! She looked gorgeous, full of Herself and looked the sexiest She had ever been but She was going on a date with a black guy. I begged Her not to **** him on the first date, She didn't but that meant another date! She wouldn't let me touch Her sexually while She was dating Her black man. She said it would mean being unfaithful to him .WHAT!!! Well on the second date, She ****** him. He was hung and She said "remember this day darling, he has been and touched me where you will never be able to" Think about that b4 you embark on this.
2007-01-31 09:12:17 · answer #7 · answered by David 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It will always cause insecurities in your relationship. You might WANT her to sleep with another man, but you probably won't get to do another woman, your wife might not be comfortable with you doing it. And you'll always wonder if he was better than you, and if his d*ck is alot bigger, it will probably shatter your confidence. I don't recommend this at all.
2007-01-31 08:05:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I only sleep with my husband. I will never sleep with any other man and definitely never with any black man.
2016-05-23 23:33:46 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darling I don't think you will want that. You might like to watch but you will not like the end results. Once you go black you never go back. So in other words keep you fantasies to yourself. And if she is so attracted to black men why didn't she married one. Think about it.
2007-01-31 08:07:02 · answer #10 · answered by kitcat 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋