ok so i've been with my boyfriend for 4 months i already met all his family nad he's met mine. his mom wants me to go visit her, so i asked my boyfriend for her number and he doesnt want to give it to me he says that why do i have to go visit her without him. and i got really upset at him he was like i can't beleive we are going to fight over this. and i was like yeah and hang up the phone. it pisses me off that he doesnt want me to go see his mom. i know he loves me and im the second girl to ever meet his whole family. and i know he loves me. He is 24 by the way and he has my brothers number and he calls him to chat and everything. so i want to know if im overreating guys any comments.....
2007-01-31 07:51:07 · 1 answers · asked by Blondie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I don't think you're overreacting. I would feel the same way. You need to have a good discussion with him on why he won't allow you to call or see his mother by yourself. The fact that he calls your brother on a whim for chit chat and you are not given the chance to do the same with his mother, sounds like he is hiding somethig. Ask him to be honest with you and why he really won't allow you to do so, this may sound extreme, but if he is this selfish or if he is not being truthful, you do not want to be in a relationship like that. He could be hiding more and do so in the future and he could be controlling which is not healthy. You definitely need to have a talk with him, there is absolutely no reason why you cannot simply visit his mother, what does he expect if you two were to marry in the future? He can't hide whatever he is hiding or control that forever. Good luck
2007-01-31 08:54:21 · answer #1 · answered by maldmb03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋