i feel like cutting?

Question

think my friends think I'm all superwoman this month. This month has been very very stressful for me. I've had band reherals for nights and I wind up exhausted. my homework is piling up. A girl in my grade is being a byotch and spreading nasty rumors about me. Im trying to loose 3 pounds for semi formal. My skin is broken out and acne treatments arent working. My friend (a)is having troubles with her boyfriend. the other( b)is fighting with the first friend. B is stalking a boy and asking my advice. Friend c is asking me to se how the boy im in love with feels about her and advice with her current boyfriend. Friend d broke up with her boyfriend. Im trying to be good to them and my other friends but I get so stressed and ***** or cry. friend e asks me to hang out and gets mad because im already doing something. I am not superwoman. How do I get them to understand. Its tearing me apart quickly. I have loved the boy friend c has like for over a year and am confused how he is treating me

We are friends known each other for over a year. We know a good amount of stuff about each other. We are always joking around and touching each other. He will stroke my arm, hug me, tells me he loves me, joke around, poke me. Recently we were at the mall together and he had his arm around me. My friend Hailey and I were shopping with him. Hailey decided to go into another store so he followed me instead of her. He was tapping my butt with his bag and was smiling with me. we were holding hands for a while too. We wer talking about semi and he said he wasnt going with this girl anymore. He asked if I was going. I said yes and he said "Good". During all day band rehersal he pushed his way to sit with me next to me. He moved his seat during band to be by me. We talk so much. In the halls he comes up and touches me. Are we really good friends or does he want more? My body is in overload and I feel like cutting. What should I do about everything? how does he feel and how do i deal with stres

The boy I like never went out with or dated any of those girls above.

Answer 1

DONT CUT! YOU WILL REGRET IT!! IM NOT JOKIN

Answer 2

Don't cut yourself, it's just stupid and won't solve a damn thing. Just tell your friends you need a breather, if they are truly your friends they will understand. There are times when it needs to be about you, and this is one of those times. Don't worry about the guy, he may come around and then again may not. But guess what, there are PLENTY of guys out there. So, if he passes up the chance that just means that another great guy gets to move in and take over his place. You sound younger and I know how you feel, I thought about suicide also. I'm so glad I didn't do it. A few years down the road you'll look back to these days and all you can do is laugh. What seems like such a big deal now is petty stuff in the end. You'll get through it. If you need anything just IM or email me. Take care!

Answer 3

I've heard that cutting helps with the stress, but I hope it's not worth the pain. You're pretty lucky to have a guy friend like that =) and he probably wants more..if you give out hints about you dating him and see if his reactions are positive, then he wants you =) As for you being superwoman, tell your friends you need a break and work on some other stuff before helping them.

Answer 4

You need to take a step back and really analyze what you are doing. Seems to me that you have your plate full with your own problems without trying to solve all of your friends problems too. Remember, the only life you can control is your own.

You can be there to listen to your friends, but you can't solve their problems. You shouldn't even try. That's when you get frustrated and feel like the world is coming down on top of you.

Don't let your friends bring you down.

Answer 5

Your life does sound busy. It sounds to me like you need a little down time. Some time to NOT think. Why don't you pick a mindless movie to go to for an afternoon/evening (anything but a romance). All this thinking is just making the situation worse. As for the boy, it does sound like he's giving you mixed signals. Teenage boys are like that. If he is truly your friend, he won't mind if you bring it up. Here's a suggestion of how to approach it, (let's pretend his name is Jack). Hey, Jack. What's up with you? I've noticed that you're spending more time with me and wanting to sit by me and stuff. Are you feeling left out since you and (whatever her name is) broke up? I'm happy to be your friend, but you're acting like you want more. If you do, be up front, because I'll have to think about that.

Take care of yourself. Find some down time and something healthy to do with that down time. Your mind is working overtime and it needs a little rest. Just like a car engine overheats with too much use, so does your mind. Take it easy, maybe get some exercise. I know for me doing the rowing machine for 30 minutes not only burns calories, it allows me to take my mind off everything else. Plus the endorphines from exercise bring up your mood. Take care (and think about telling your mom or a close friend's mom about your feelings of being overwhelmed).

Answer 6

1st: dont let all your friends problems bother you! yes it may have something to do with you but that does not mean you have to worry for them!
2nd: if you like the guy tell him how you feel. guys are NOT good with hints. at all!
3rd: if your friend gets mad at you cuz you dont have time for her right now tell her you are still good friends but you are busy! and back off a little! tell her that if she wants to hang out with you so much then yall should make plans.

i hope that helps!! dont worry your school years are crazy and when you are done and graduate you wont even know most of those "friends"

Answer 7

well dont cut your self that will just give you more stress by trying to cover it up but just tell them your only one person and dont pressure you to do stuff when your already doing stuff that is what i did about a week ago and every body left me alone and for that crackhead that is spreading rumers dont listen to them and kick that *********.s a.s,s for me no one needs to be treated like that email me if u ever need to talk just send me and email
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Answer 8

ok i have a friend her name is whell i just wont say she has serious problem with cutting she cut this guys name into her arm it sayed kamy she really likes him so she did it if you have a problem then in stead of hurting you then get a plastic manacure hand and use that thats what my friend is using now

Answer 9

don't cut. it doesn't solve anything. i should know. u need to find a positive outlet for ur stress... take walks, draw, write... do something.... as for your problems with yours friends: you need to talk to them. tell them how much their problems are stressing you out. if they are good friends then they will lay off you if u ask them. as for this guy... u definately need to talk to him. find out if he does actually like you. confront him.
i wish u luck... but please don't ever cut. u will only hurt the people you love... believe me when i say that i know

Answer 10

You really need to step back and relax. It not all that important. Do what truly makes you happy not what someone else wants you to do.

Answer 11

i shoudl go seee somebody. just dont cut. because i have a really close guy friend to and he talks to me a lot and my firnd rly like him. but anyways talk to somebody about this and how you fell just please dont cut yourself its so bad. and about the rumors just tell everybody that there not true. but goodluck with whatever you do.