what do u do when u n ur partner do nothing but fight?

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Answer 1

Eventually break up.

Answer 2

If you and your partner are continuously fighting, that is big indication that something is wrong in the relationship. There is a reason that you stay so angry or irritated with each other. If you want to salvage the relationship, I think you and your partner need to sit down and talk to figure out what is really going on and what is making you so unhappy. Conversations such as this are never easy so I suggest making the environment as soothing and comforting as possible so you both will be at ease. If you can, prepare him a nice meal and discuss it over dinner.

Answer 3

You should first try to sit down when you are both calm and try to discuss the reasons behind teh arguments you guys are constantly having. Don't decide to discuss this with your partner when he comes home from work. He will be tired, and he would want some peace in his house, with his partner, that's you!!! So try to discuss this issue when he is not so tired, when he is relaxed, and when you are relaxed also. It's the only way that the both of you will have the patience to deal with the issue.

Secondly: If the talking does not work, then you should just seperate for some time and have a cooling off period. This mean strictly NO contact. It's important that the both of you realise how much you guys miss each other, or maybe that you don't actually miss each other and that you are better off on your own. But try to think of the good things he has done for you, and all the goodness which is in him. Try to look beyond the arguments. I'm sure there is more to your relationship than just arguments, although you may not realise it.

During this time apart you should try to understand that you are his partner, and if you want to spend the rest of your life with someone, you have to look beyond LITTLE issues which are creating dents in your relationship. Issues will NEVER go away. It is entirley upto teh both of you to decide how you are going to handle it. What's more important? Issues, or the both of you together and happy????

Sometimes you have to make sacrafices, which means that if he does things which annoy you, then you hav eto swallow it and get on with life. It takes 5 -10 mins to get over something which he may have said or done, but that would mean happiness between the both of you for much longer.

You have to realse that he depends on you as much as you depend on him, all couples do. You have to make yourself his happiness. Make him WANT to come home to you from work, and make him WANT to think of you during the day and smile. With constant arguments, you're irritating to him, and vise versa. You have to be clever about this and make him appreciate you and make him WANT to be happy with you. Make him rely on you for peace, believe me, he will cherish you so much more, and arguments will be the last thing on both of your minds. You just have to make it work. Make the sacrafices, and he will see how special you are, and how lucky he his.

All the best, I hope you guys can sort it out.

Answer 4

You stop fighting. No, it's not easy, but remember: it takes two to fight. If one person stops (presumably you), the fighting stops. If you're sick of it, quit it. Take a deep breath, count to 10, go for a walk, say "I love you", put on your headphones and listen to your iPod, whatever, just STOP fighting whenever it begins. Once you teach yourself over the course of a few weeks to stop arguing, you will reach a point at which you are ready to have a discussion about how to handle disagreements, and that is when the relationship growth can truly begin.

Answer 5

U should figure out what you both want in life. How much are you alike? Do you love one another? What causes you to fight? Then pray together and asked for peace in your relationship. God will let you both know if it's meant for you guys to be together. I'm not sure how long you have been in a relationship, but if it's only been a couple of months (let it go). In if it's PHYSICAL RUN. Sometimes, we wont something so bad we block out all the bad things and continue to struggle to make it work. I can tell you this you can not make anything work on your own. You have to put God in everything you do. In have faith in him. i hope this helps you out.

Answer 6

I have the same questions. When it seems like the bad outweighs the good? A big part of me wants to leave, but at the same time I don't want to break his heart. And I don't know your situation, but in mine there are four children involved, and I have to think about what is best for them. If you are NOT that involved or you don't have a major commitment, just put an end to it and move on.

Answer 7

u must try and figure out why u r fighting so much and go from there. try and delete what is causing all the fighting and replace it with healthy talking

Answer 8

If you continue to fight, i think that you should put your foot down and if it don't work, maybe you should just separate until he figure out what he wants. maybe you can have sex in the mean time in between time

Answer 9

if it's damaging you physically, financially, emotionally, morally or damaging you at all. Make the right decition and break up. You also have to think: WILL THIS SITUATION GET ANY BETTER? IF WE DO CONTINUE TO FIGHT, WILL I LIKE OUR RELATIONSHIP ANY MORE THAN I DO RIGHT NOW? Probably not.

Answer 10

separate before you get yourself even deeper