I think I need a psychologist. Im 17 yrs old and my dad has been smoking for a while now. I RARELY ever talk to my dad. We dont hate eachother but we just never talk much. I've been waking up almost every other week at around 4 or 5 in the morning because I keep dreaming that he's dying or is going to die from smoking. I always have nightmares about people around me being hurt. Whats wrong with me
2007-01-31 07:38:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You are obviously concerned with your father's health and don't want him to die without resolution for you both. Start by talking to him, litle by little and try to build a straonger relationship. You will then stop having these dreams. You dream about people being hurt around you but in fact you are the one you are afraid is going to be hurt. Talk. Express yourself more to those you care for.
2007-01-31 07:42:31 · answer #1 · answered by Dragonfly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It wouldn’t hurt to try and develop a relationship with your Dad. Find something in common. I am no doctor, and perhaps a psychologist or a school counselor would be worth a listen, but look for something you and your Dad can do together. If you have a job, and he likes sports, get a couple tickets to a sporting event and take him, for example. If he knows you have similar interests, maybe he’ll start to include you in his activities. I had the same issue with my Dad. Eventually, we both found common ground and everything’s cool. Nothing’s ‘wrong’ with you :)
2007-01-31 15:44:47 · answer #2 · answered by Bobby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just scared of losing him and you want a relationship with him. The nightmares just mean that your scared of losing people and your a worrier. If you want to see a counselor go ahead but dont take any medication unless you have any signs of causing harm.
2007-01-31 15:42:15 · answer #3 · answered by monica your new bff 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi.. go to your dad ..talk to him..tell him about your scary dreams ..tell him that you want to live with him more and more of years... try to make him like your best friend n((near of u))
you will make him agood man ..tell him always about what smokes make the body.. my dad was like this ..but now he stopped smoking cause all of my family talked to him ..BYE :)
2007-01-31 15:48:21 · answer #4 · answered by NOUR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your dad!
2007-01-31 16:16:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋