would you fight this disciplinary action at school? 10 points?

Question

If you were my mother or just me in general, would you appeal this disciplinary action the school has chose to take? So I asked the deans if they were dating as a retaliation kind of thing to his yelling at the top of his lungs for me to get off 'his property'.. now all I did was say "So what are you and Ms.Espo- dating now? How long yall been dating for", he was fuming and called the cops and I also got a ticket.. but the school chose to sentence me for 18 weeks in a behavior school. Keep in mind, I do have a lot of other referrals for talking back to teachers, nothing more than arguing with them.. would you appeal their decision?? Do you think my mom should even try to appeal it?? What are your thoughts? Thanks 10 points.

all i did was make a rude comment, god, you guys act as if i killed someone..

basically, the deans were leaving to go home and as i was waiting for my ride, they were telling me not to show up tommorow because i was getting suspended so when i questioned why the dean just kept yelling and yelling so then i made that rude comment by asking if they were dating..they took me over to the principle and she just said that i was going to behavior school..

Answer 1

You did the crime, now do the time, and hopfully you will learn from it...

Answer 2

This is the biggest impact in areas where illegals concentrate because not only are they draining education funds they are degrading services and impacting our own children's future through education. Taxes aren't the main point. People who think it is about taxes say 'well legalize them and they will pay taxes and all will be well.' However, poor people don't pay for their own education and health care services, their taxes are too low. We redistribute wealth to pay for it for them. So long as it is our own poor and those we invite, that is ok. When others come above amounts we allow and not only steal the funding but ruin the schools for our own children, that is not tolerable. I think it would take a major legal change which I don't see happening when some people are still saying they should even get discretionary rather than mandatory benefits. However, I think that if their children wouldn't be educated for free, a benefit those at least from Mexico do NOT get at home, many many fewer would come. So yes, I think they should not be given education. It is not a matter of 'well they are here now', it is a matter of WHY they are here, to begin with.

Answer 3

I don't think what you did was right and by your own admission you have other issues being held against you BUT that certainly does not give him a reason to allow all of these to accumulate into one punishment. I do think your Mother has not only a right but an obligation to sit and listen to what is being said here. An 18 week punishment of this nature will follow you and I do not care how well you handle it and how well you do. For the next couple of years it will be something you will have to deal with if you go or not. It's just easier to put it behind you if you don't have to go and you straighten out your act now.

My opinion is your Mother has every reason to sit with these people to at the very least hear both sides of this because once this 18 weeks is over, this mess will not be behind you.

Answer 4

If it is not in the code of conduct for the school that you are not allowed to ask facilty question's... then yes! fight it! As long as that was the only reason action was taken. I have a child that has bipolar and he has done quite a bit so I understand that even if you've had a past with you're mouth, you shouldn't be punished for asking a question like that. Even if you were trying to be smart with them in asking that, there was no need to call the cops!!! But it is a good idea to check your code of conduct very closely to see what the rules are as well as the steps to take if defending yourself. If your findings in the rules are that they were in the wrong then you must fight because it will posibly be on your school and arrest records for the rest of your life!

Answer 5

Making rude comments is a sign of disrespect, which is why you're being punished.

Want to know a little secret? If you don't respect them, FAKE IT. Smarting off and getting yourself into trouble isn't going to get you anywhere in life other than a jail cell. Go through the motions to get yourself to where you need to be. Do what they want now, be your own person later. You'll have plenty of time to voice your opinion, and there are far better ways to do it than across a parking lot after school.

This decision should not be appealed. Here's why:
You need to learn respect
You need to learn tact
You need to learn that there is a time and a place to express your anger or frustration
You need to learn that yelling insults won't solve anything
You need to learn what life will be like if you continue to act this way. You will lose jobs. You will lose college. You will lose your future.

I know yelling at a teacher doesn't seem like a big deal to you. I mean, it's not like you caused any physical damage to anyone. Nobody died. But your future will if you do not learn to control your mouth, your temper, and your emotions. It's part of growing up. The school is just trying to get you there, and I don't think this is a bad idea.

Answer 6

I get what you are asking but what dont get is what you did wrong....if you could explain that a little bit better i will come back and answer your question.... :)


Ok i get it now... LOL!!!!
HAHA! I think you should fight it. If you haven't got in that much trouble before i dont see a reason for them to send you to behavioral school. What do you have to lose by fighting it?? If i was you i'd fight it. Maybe you should tell the dean that you are sorry and tell them you WILL do better (dont say try). If that fails at least you know you tried to do something. :)

Answer 7

For goodness grow and act more mature.You need to go to a behavioral school. to resolve your behavior problems .Its not worth fighting disciplinary action and I doubt whether they will accept you back.if I was your mother I would expectyou to apologise to the deans for your outbursts.

Answer 8

Is that all you did was talk back and argueing lol i argue wit one teacher all the time make fun of her 2 buh i dont like her buh that is besdie the point haha... If all you did was ask if they are dating and how long they have been dating then they are taking it 2 extreme... Called the cops cause you asked that ? then he really must not like you at all... Yes your mom should try to fight back because all you did was words.. not like you hurt and killed no one... for god sakes you should only go 2 behavior school unless you hurt someone physically not emotionally..

for all you people that said that he shouldnt fight back is stupid because it was just words.... GOD....

Answer 9

LEARN something.....

They are sending you someplace to learn, not to punish. If they wanted to punish you, you could be cleaning toilets with toothbrushes or peeling gum off the underside of desks with your bare hands. There are lots of cool "punishments" out there that you can have kids do, without ever having to bring in a disciplinary hearing, the cops, or whatever.

You are being sent to behaviour school, so that you can learn to discipline yourself.

Discipline is doing what you should do even though you don't want to do it.

Its something that has been missing in your life.

So start right now, and do what you really should do, what you really need to do, and stop whining and crying like a little baby. Step up and learn how to be a man!

Answer 10

Well if you were at school it is not "his property". I do not think he should of yelled at you for asking if he was dating another person...that seems unproffesional..but perhaps you should of not asked the question either. I would fight back and I also think my mom would to...but if you are known for talking back to teachers then you probley don't have a good chance of winning..Maybe this should be a lesson not to ask personal questions that really don't concern you.

Answer 11

No, I think you are out of line. You were not supposed to be on his property, so he told you to leave. You then decided to be a smart a$$ and make a rude comment. Since this is not your first second or third time, you deserve to be punished. A behavior school is just what you need. You should learn to respect your elders and not talk back.