i love her so much and i just want to kiss her but shes no a lezbian but i want to go out with her so badly wht should i do?
2007-01-31 07:27:41 · 26 answers · asked by wray0x0wray 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
also she has a boy friend
2007-01-31 07:28:16 · update #1
How would you feel if a straight guy wanted you as you say you want this girl? Would you want him to push his values on you?
Accept the fact that gay straight or bi, there are going to be people you will be interested in, who will not be interested in you. You will need to learn to deal with that and move on with your life.
2007-01-31 07:33:09 · answer #1 · answered by nowment 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First I suggest you breath in then out and relax. If you care for someone you should tell them with no expectations. If she rejects you it will hurt but at least you know you tried no looking on back on what might have been. If you can't ask her be her friend and think about her feelings not yours. Love is a wonderful thing but its better when shared maybe you should find someone that can share it with you. Good luck sweet and take care.
2007-01-31 07:41:03 · answer #2 · answered by jawbertsc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same situation (kind of) and it really sucks. There isn't much you can do about it though. If you are comfortable doing so, maybe tell her you like other women and see what her reaction is. That is really your best option, maybe if she has that information she will reevaluate how she feels about you. Stranger things have happened. Good luck, and try not to be too bummed. There is someone out there for you.
2007-01-31 09:35:57 · answer #3 · answered by T 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Shame
2007-02-01 05:16:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So sorry. That has to be hard. Imagine it this way: A straight guys tells you that he is in love with you. What would you do? I think you are of luck on this one. It may be hard, but you will have to move on.
2007-01-31 07:33:37 · answer #5 · answered by Maggie B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it...to be blunt, she doesn't dig you, so quit lusting after her.
How old are you anyway to be set on being a "lezbian"???
2007-01-31 07:31:07 · answer #6 · answered by incognitas8 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How would you feel if her boyfriend came on to you? I bet you would not be interested. Are you attracted to her bec it is safe and she cannot hurt you when she rejects your advances? Or is it that you can blame it on her when she rejects you, that way you are safe....find someone that will be interested in you and take a chance...
2007-01-31 07:33:57 · answer #7 · answered by M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. She's not only not gay, but has a boyfriend. This isn't a thing about sexual orientation, but about not pining for someone who isn't available to you. Get over her and get out there to meet some great girls who are available.
P.S. 'lesbian' isn't spelled with a 'z'.
2007-01-31 07:33:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Every girl is lesbian to some degree; women are too beautiful. If you are cute enough, hang out with her and her boyfriend, get a couple drinks in her, and give her a big wet kiss in front of him. Game on.
2007-01-31 07:31:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Leave her alone unless you want to wind up in State Custody for innapropriate conduct of a sexual nature. They can hold you in detention until you ate 18 or more.
2007-01-31 07:32:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋