we were dating for over 2 years.
we were echothers first loves
we decided tot ake a break last wed to focus on ourselves and school for a while. (we are both sophmores in college)
he has alot of hard classes and works over 40 hours a week
he sat at my work sunday nigth for 2 1/2 hours doing nothing and told me when i got off of work that everythign is over
he keeps apologizing for doing this to me
he said he felt liek he HAD to love me and couldnt leave me cause he was afraid id h urt myself or drop out of class
but then again he says he does love me but wants to "stop cause we arent dating anymore" i told him that thats impossible. since we are eachother first love
we talked abotu marriage
he sounds confused abotu us right now
i know to give him his space
while on this break he called me alot but i didnt answer cause he is the one that wanted tot alk on sunday nights only but he called me 2 times each day till sunday....
he says its over for now and maybe we'll get back together.
2007-01-31 07:18:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he is afraid the grass wont be as green on the other side and hed miss out on me
i know for a fact he isnt interested in another women nor dating anyone or anything.. i know for a fact..
he has never lied to me before.
he is the only person int eh world i trust
he was my only friend. i dont have friends or family to help me cause im really shy... i have a hard time making friends
i thougth the break would be good for us and i thought hed come back but i was worng. i told him to think about this life changing decision for a while longer but he says hes positive he doesnt want to get back together with me.. i know he is confused though. i told him i dot want to talk to him or be his friend and he went into shock and didnt say anything for liek 2 minutes..
what should i say to him when i see him?
should i give him one last goodbye hug?
im giving him a scrap book i made of us that he never took home from our 2 year anniversary and a white gold heart necklace... ={ i
2007-01-31 07:22:13 · update #1
do you think he will miss me?
do you think he will come back?
i know he still oves me and he keeps telling me he's sorry
we had a great relationship. very open honest and trustworthy with great communication skills. we got into the normal arguments here and there like any other couple but that was about it...
2007-01-31 07:23:45 · update #2
If it is meant for the two of you to be together it will work itself out. be strong and let him go. He will come back when he sees that not only is the grass not greener but it is artificial turf.
2007-01-31 07:32:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hun, get over your shyness and get a life...other than this guy. You can't put all your eggs in one basket, b/c now look: the one guy you wrapped your world around doesn't want you anymore, now you have no other friends to talk to about it and help you get over him. The only reason you are hung on him is b/c you have no one else. Its ok to be alone. It's ok to miss him. But you have to be strong as your own person and just forget all the calls and other bs. Get yourself a life and a back bone...move ON.
2007-01-31 15:28:59 · answer #2 · answered by amyvnsn 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
For starters you can not talk so damn much. Next just give him his stuff back and forget him. I'd guess that he probably wants to get some new booty since you were his first and all. Lord knows I've gotten tired of the same piece of *** more than once. To be honest I don't blame the guy . It would probably do you some good to find a little fun somewhere else.
2007-01-31 15:34:25 · answer #3 · answered by frank w 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I think its good if he feels he and you need space to find yourself. You need to respect his decision and hope for the best.
2007-01-31 15:32:48 · answer #4 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋