I overheard a woman in the office telling another woman that she and her husband fantasize about her getting banged by another man. Why does that turn some men on? I can't imagine something like another man having sex with a woman I love. Can someone let me in on the psychology of someone like that?
2007-01-31 07:17:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I can get into the fantasy. My wife is turned on by the idea of watching me bang another girl too.
Actually DOING it is another matter.
There are two different aspects: pleasure of your wife/husband, or the humiliation that you aren't good enough. With a lot of men, this is the issue - they enjoy (for some reason) the idea that they aren't good enough and their wife needed to find a stud.
2007-01-31 07:23:23 · answer #1 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess it takes all kinds to make this world go around but I'm with you. No banging around with other people for the one I love.
2007-01-31 07:22:10 · answer #2 · answered by shortimer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people just need a little extra, they are probably trting to spice up thier sex life in order to save thier relationship.i dont understand it either, it discusts me in fact, but thts the way some people think
2007-01-31 07:21:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a crazy world out there. Who knows why some people do what they do?
2007-01-31 07:22:59 · answer #4 · answered by Kwijibo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's very very common. many married couples do this. it adds excitement to their relationship.
Look up the word "compersion" on wikipedia
for some hot stories.
alt.sex.stories.cuckold on usenet.
2007-01-31 07:22:07 · answer #5 · answered by a1tommyL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some men fetishize their greatest fear. And for many men that fear is being cheated on.
2007-01-31 07:44:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To each his own!
2007-01-31 07:20:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't see that either
2007-01-31 07:22:06 · answer #8 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋