i had a dream my boyfriend got killed and when we found him he had rotted, we are not getting along right now, what does the dream mean
2007-01-31 07:17:23 · 23 answers · asked by k f 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
It means he's gonna live a long life.
2007-01-31 07:20:10 · answer #1 · answered by taxi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am no pyschology expert...but I thought I would leave a response to your question. I personally dont' think that a dream 'means' anything...like predicting something. I think that dreams are just images that go throughout your brain spontaneously as you sleep. Now, I am a psychology student, but this is my own opinion. I haven't taken any dream analysis classes or anything...and that is a psychoanalytic perspective...which I don't really support. Anyway, I think what is important is how YOU interpret your dream. How do you feel about it? Were you disturbed/sad about the situation when you woke up or what? I have had a terrible dream about losing my boyfriend...one of those that felt so real that when I woke up and saw him lying there I just started crying because I was so happy that he was alive. But my situation is a little different..my bf has a disability and I was worried about his health. Anyway, I took that dream and put it toward making sure that I was letting him now that I loved him and not taking him for granted. Maybe your dream could influence you to make ammends with your bf...maybe not...it's up to you what to do with your feelings.
2007-01-31 07:26:51 · answer #2 · answered by simple 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Death in dreams usually means change. Probably the changes in him and how that affects your relationship. As far as the rotted corpse go's. It could mean that through your eyes, he has made so many changes that it is too late for you to go back to the way it was. Viewing him as rotted, means that he is too far gone for you. He is bad, like an old apple that's getting brown inside. It will never be ripe and sweet again. Or I'm completely wrong.
2007-01-31 07:29:07 · answer #3 · answered by brotherman2112 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The dream does not mean anything in particular. Maybe you are stressed out about your relationship, but you could have that same dream anyway. Fear of death of a loved on is a common theme in dreams, regardless of your situation. That said, you could have that dream years after breaking up, and the dream would not change meanings. Dreams are relatively arbitrary. They can be caused by stress. They can be caused by things you are thinking about. They can be caused by that burrito you shouldn't have eaten before you went to bed! I wouldn't worry about the dream. It sounds like you have real-life problems that you should worry about instead. Focus on those. Forget the dream. Good luck!
2007-01-31 07:27:32 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A dream can be regarded as a sort of indication, in simple terms. But normally they are symbolic or metopharic in nature. This dream could mean that your boyfriend could possible run into some kind of a trouble in near future. You should advise him to look around himself and see if there is anything which might cause him trouble!
2007-01-31 07:30:08 · answer #5 · answered by aaqib 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That you were sleeping, and random electrical flashes in your brain got organized by your brain into pictures that your audio and visual processing cetners could understand.
Really, modern psychological theory is that dreams mean anything. They aren't an expression of some kind of subconscious desire or problem. They're effectively random. Don't worry so much. If you have a problem with your boyfriend, work on that instead.
2007-01-31 07:22:47 · answer #6 · answered by Qwyrx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreams happen when you are sleeping, and do not always contain logic or keep other emotions in play. After all, yo uare not living those dreams, so don't be so worried about it. It's not like you want your boyfriend killed.
2007-01-31 07:22:53 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Death in dreams alot of the times is the exact opposte. It means life. Maybe your dream has to do with ya'll not getting along and it bothers you.
2007-01-31 07:22:33 · answer #8 · answered by happycowgirl55 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at first, it does no longer advise your bf is going to circulate and die sometime at the instant, this week or perhaps this month. i've got self belief your dream reflects your innovations and emotions approximately your bf, signifying how close you're to him. In common English, you adore him "to the dying" and can be fairly heartbroken if he died this on the spot. Take what you have seen in the dream and circulate spend sometime with him and enable him be attentive to how lots he skill to you. i think of it is probable the only and terrific thank you to convenience your self at this 2d.
2016-09-28 06:02:25 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think it really means anything that you sohuld worry about.
there are dream dictionaries out there that you could take a look at and see what that means. it also has to do with what you may have been thinking about before you went to bed. you may have thought that you are unhappy with your boyfriend, and that thought may have come to your mind right before you drifted off to sleep!
WORK YOUR PROBLEMS OUT W/ YOUR MANNN!
2007-01-31 07:24:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends How did you feel? If you felt ok in the dream, you want to break up with him/be rid of him. If you felt scared/disgusted, you probably feel guilty/afraid of hurting him.
If you felt scared and sad, you're afraid of losing him.
There you go.
EDIT - oh yeah, and who cares what "modern psychological theory" says. As if "it" ever agrees on anything and isn't constantly changing.
2007-01-31 07:23:42 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋