Do you think that this will make the relationship between me and my friend awkward?
2007-01-31 07:01:00 · 26 answers · asked by Lola Frank 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Talk to them and ask them
2007-01-31 07:04:14 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be a real friend and end it and be honest with her and hope for the best or you can continue being the little tramp that got you into this mess in the first place. In that case, since you have no feelings for your friend, just keep your mouth shut, or why even give a **** if she found out.
2007-01-31 15:05:43 · answer #2 · answered by Donna D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this "Would I like it if my friend was instant messaging my boyfriend" If you say no then stop doing it. I think I would feel awkward doing it just because its her boyfriend and they are supposed to be really close and all. I think its okay to talk to him while all of you are together but privately is kinda weird.
2007-01-31 15:06:22 · answer #3 · answered by ehrlich 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that it's wrong, unless you guys are discussing things that are crossing the line of the relationship that you should have. If you can't tell your friend what your discussing with her man, chances are you talking about something you have no business talking about!
2007-01-31 15:06:38 · answer #4 · answered by T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she finds out, then yes. If you are talking about things that need to be discussed (like if he is asking about her, how to make her happy, something like that) then it's fine. But if you are just chatting for the heck of it...she'll be mad if she finds out. If nothing bad has been said, and if you guys stop, then she'll get over it. But she will initially not be happy.
2007-01-31 15:04:39 · answer #5 · answered by surfchika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on WHY you are Iming him. Do you like him in that way? Does he like you? Do you talk about things with him that you could comfortably discuss in front of your friend? Don't hide things from her she will eventually find out. Be honest and open and tell her.
2007-01-31 15:06:00 · answer #6 · answered by primamaria04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i'd say it depends on what ur talking about..and if ur friend knows or not...cuz if they dont know..it could cause a lot of issues for everyone..not to mention heartbreak...my ex-best friend did that to me...but they were secretly doing it and they were talking about being together while he was with me..trust me..it really hurts to find out on your own.
2007-01-31 15:07:45 · answer #7 · answered by daniels_sexy_girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your friend, my guess would be she would say its OK, but then be mad later. Unless you have been friends with him a long time, don't initiate contact with him, she will view this as flirting and not just being nice.
2007-01-31 15:06:13 · answer #8 · answered by mingcrew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and him were friends before her it shouldnt if you became firends through her then why are you iming him anyway???? But I agree anything you can't tell her about is wrong so ask her if it wouuld bother her!
2007-01-31 15:08:32 · answer #9 · answered by Samantha T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on how much and what you are saying..... i had a good friend and i started talking to her boyfriend of two years and now we r married so be carefull
2007-01-31 15:05:55 · answer #10 · answered by I love America♥♥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends what ur sayin 2 her bf dawg but just shag ur friend so if she does find out she will blame the bf not u
2007-01-31 15:06:04 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋