i told my wife abt what i've written here, & how tormented i feel about having been cuckolded by the one great love of my life. She was in tears & i'm also in tears as we talked, & she told me that it is me she really loves even if the baby she's presently carrying in her womb isn't mine. i asked her to stop her friend (the baby's father) from visiting her at the house, as i am starting to get jealous. She said she understands my feelings, but explained that as the father of the child in her womb her friend has every right to visit her & see how she's doing. She was a very sensual woman... my wife. And as she's explaining this, i really wanna make love to her, even if she's now pregnant for more than four months, & even if she's carrying another man's baby in her womb. But i tried to control myself. i just contented myself by masturbating. My question is: is it ok to have sex with her at this stage of her pregnancy? (i really want her!)
2007-01-31 06:53:12 · 9 answers · asked by lionel e 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Her friend who has impregnated her also has strong objections to my making love to her during her pregnancy, as she has told me. She said that only a baby's real father can make love to the mother during the pregnancy, or something bad may happen to the child. Is it medically true?
2007-01-31 06:55:51 · update #1
You shouldn't be married to this woman. Her logic is the most absurd thing I've heard in a long time. I'd kick her out if I were you. It's not even your child.
2007-01-31 08:06:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sir are being bamboozled.
Way have you not thrown the cheating whore to the curb?
You can have sex with a pregnant woman right up until labor.
Secondly, it matters not who it is.
Third, Why do you allow the cuckold in your house?
You have more patience than I do or are you just a doormat.
I hesitate to make a violent suggestion BUT justice would indicate that the father of the child in her womb needs a visit with a baseball bat. She needs to exit your house with him.
2007-01-31 15:16:44 · answer #2 · answered by Flagger 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's your wife, if you guys love eachother then do it, Sex during precnacy is good, ask any doctor. The baby father can call and see how she's doing but, there is no reason he should stop by to see her, ABSOLULTY no reason, he can call. Your wife should understand this, she's pregnate the baby isnt born, a phone call will be more then enough, it's your job to take care of her your baby or not it's your WIFE.
2007-01-31 15:16:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a strong man for staying with this woman after she stabbed you in the back sleeping with her friend.
I'm not sure what to tell you. This isn't going to be healthy for the un-born child: being stuck between you, her, and the baby's father. It isn't healthy for you to still be with this woman, even though she's still in contact with her friend and is carrying his child.
You need to make a decision: is it really worth staying with this "sensual woman"? Actions speak louder than words.
2007-01-31 15:12:40 · answer #4 · answered by asturiasangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he just doesn't want you to have sex with her. Any doctor will tell you that sex is a very good exercises during pregnancy. But you don't want her seeing him, and definitely don't want him to sleep with her any more. And she has chosen you, not him so I don't see why you can't.
2007-01-31 15:05:44 · answer #5 · answered by Ydua R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Damn boy, grow some balls and dump that freak and get yourself a real woman. If my wife would have tried pulling that crap on me that freak would be gone so fast it would make her head spin.
2007-01-31 15:18:21 · answer #6 · answered by Kwijibo 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with it. Go for it. She is still your wife. just make sure she feels comfortable. If she is, go for it.
2007-01-31 15:06:03 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Sapphira♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that is not true. You should be able to make love to her, you are her husband not the other guy.
2007-01-31 18:23:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
both of you can have sex with her
2007-02-04 06:55:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋