I've been married for three years and my husband told me that his fantasy was to see me with another girl. I'm only 22 yrs old and did not experience before I got married. I told him that I will do it. And I really do want to do it, but i'm scared. I don't like girls so I don't know how i'll feel. Will I get excited or just have to fake it. What should I do
2007-01-31 06:45:24 · 12 answers · asked by shygirl22 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
make sure you let him know how you feel and you will go as far as you are able to go as you let things take there course. you may get to a point that you can not proceed and then you may loose all inhibition and go all the way with this other girl. and who knows you might go as far as wanting your husband to join in and you may find your self wanting him to satisfie this other girl just like he has satisfide you since being together. if you open your mind and exspereince new things you will find a more satisfide life knowing your marriage has become stronger !
I wish you all the best !!!!!
2007-01-31 07:28:56 · answer #1 · answered by daniel b 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't do it! Read other stories on yahoo answers about the same thing. Some ruin their marriage because the husband goes with the girl when your not around.
Everyone has dreams, fantasies and wants but you can not act on everything. Just because you want a millions dollars, Manson etc doesn't mean you get it.
If you are scared, etc DON'T DO IT.... Talk to him, tell him you at this time are not ready to do such a thing to share him.
2007-01-31 07:32:20 · answer #2 · answered by sbratt2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No,,when you are in the situation you will know whether or not is ok with you ..it could be a great thrill for you and then it might be the biggest turn off ever..but you will never know till you are there..Look at it like this..ok.In that situation everybody has a chance to say no or stop at anytime..So go for it.. surely aren't u just a little curious?My wife was ,as it turned out she loved it,but as for being totally bi.. she really isn't but is always comfortable in that situtation
2007-01-31 08:25:37 · answer #3 · answered by Im C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a good idea to bring another person into your marriage. Your vows were for each other not each other + one. Your husband is being unrealistic and you don't sound like you want to do it, so, don't allow him to force you to. Tell him "by the way, my fantasy is to see you with another man." and see how fast he changes his mind about living out fantasies.
You should just go back to him and say I'm not interested in doing another girl.
2007-01-31 07:05:14 · answer #4 · answered by downinmn 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i think of there are 2 approaches to respond to this... One- If its harmless and its to teach him on, choose for it. it must be embarrassing to you yet thats the buzz, attempt driving approximately 40 miles away and then hire a hotel room and turn it right into a memorable experience. If he's calling for interest/fetish/laughs then supply it to him. stay and have a hilarious time. could you quite him bypass without you??? 2- that's a steep request if your no longer up for that style of relaxing. If it quite bothers you advise doing it in inner maximum....i could agonize if he grew to become into on the down low. yet you recognize your husband greater valuable than we do.
2016-11-23 17:57:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him out for the evening to your local gay/les/bi bar and start there. Dance with some of the girls you find mutually attractive. Things will happen naturally if everyone is feeling it. Just have fun! Or you can always come over and spend some time with me and my wife, she enjoys the company of another sexy lady! hehe
2007-01-31 07:57:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He says I do every day, being married to him.
Don't do what your husband is pushing on you. It will ruin your marriage. Talk to your mom about what a jerk your husband is. He obviously has no respect for you at all - SO you need to have some for yourself.
2007-01-31 07:25:04 · answer #7 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I can.
2017-02-07 01:40:53 · answer #8 · answered by Rebecca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it! thats liek a threesome almost. threesomes rarely make a relationship survive afterwards... pluse you dont seem comfortable tiht he idea and have never done it before.. tell him to watch some porn! its alot healthier than throwing you into all fo that... i wouldnt do it if i were you... ask him to see him with another man and see what he says... dont do it...
2007-01-31 06:58:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
some girls genuinely like it. you should probably drink to get the anxiety down.
2007-01-31 07:14:07 · answer #10 · answered by joshjones007 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋