I apologize beforehand as this has nothing to do with makeup, but I wanna hear your views on this:
Suppose you were a big fan of a musical band - there were two main stars in this band - the lead singer & the keyboard player, both of them are brothers. The singer is a tall and handsome guy and he sings with so much passion that gets cheers from all the fans – and you are like totally attracted to him & eventually you both meet and fall in love. You get to know that not only is he the lead singer, but also the music composer & lyricist, wow! The chemistry between you two is increased tenfold & you both pursue a serious relationship.
Now, this guy's brother - the keyboard player is kinda ugly; but a good guy at heart. He has deep feelings for you, but decides to keep away from you and not to get involved in your matters, as you’re dating his brother. But one day, by chance you meet this brother, & strike up a friendly conversation. Everything goes well until all of a sudden you get shocking news………
The main person responsible for the working & success of the band was not your bf, but the brother! The brother was the guy responsible who composed all the songs, wrote the lyrics & even arranged the vocalist for the songs!!! Your bf didn’t do anything; he was merely lip-syncing with the vocalist behind the scenes because his voice was terrible! The reason your bf was even in the band in the first place is because he was his brother. You come to the realization – your bf is a cheat! He just lied to you about himself being so great, just because he wanted to love you. And needless to say the brother is heart-stricken with disappointment as well.
In this situation what would you do next?
1.Dump your boyfriend immediately because he lied to you & then get away from both of them.
2.Calm down and still stick with your bf, realizing it’s too late – you have already given your heart away to him.
3.Dump your boyfriend immediately, but after a period of time start dating his brother, as he is very talented & he still has feelings for you.
Choose option # 1,2 or 3
2007-01-31 06:28:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Makeup
I can't read your question. It's too long. I can't focus that long. I have ADD. Sorry, but write a shortened version. Thanks.
2007-01-31 06:32:41 · answer #1 · answered by true blue 6 · 2⤊ 6⤋
Neither! Ok first i would confront my bf, i would give him a chance to explain himself. But i couldn't possibly trust him anymore...so i'll have to dump him. If we're really meant for each other or if he really, really loves me then he would try to win back my heart. We'll have to start back at square one. For the ugly bro, i wouldn't be with him just because he's talented or just because he's the one behind it all. No matter what he's a different person from his bro. So it's a totally different matter. If i like him then i don't see why not? But if i don't like him (it has nothing to do with his handsome bro) then it's too bad. But i wouldn't let looks get in the way, each will be given an equal chance....
2007-01-31 22:52:14 · answer #2 · answered by djat20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You talk about their feeling but not you own. Cross out 1, 2 & 3 and start frpm scratch. Sit down and decide how you feel about both of them and go from there. Seeing ashow they are brothers and blood is thicker than water,you probably don't have much of a future with either one.
2007-01-31 16:20:09 · answer #3 · answered by ARLENE T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 Accept people for who they are - but this guy is none of that. Change this to a nice guy who does all the right things and just loves your kids etc. Only you find out he is really a molester. A lier is a lier is a lier. Move on down the road.
As for the brother - if I didn't give him the time of day before it would be pretty superficial of me to get all up on his stuff because he is the "star". He deserves better.
2007-01-31 14:41:23 · answer #4 · answered by justwondering 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dump your Bf for one. I don't know about dateing his brother being such a good idea. But if some one has to lie to you to get you to like them it's not worth it. Because they will lie about more things and you will find out in the end the hard way. But you need to follow your heart and do as it tells you to do.
2007-01-31 14:38:24 · answer #5 · answered by angels192002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would dump him because he comepletely lied intirely about who he is plus he took credit for other persons work I hate people like that. Would I get with his brother afterwords the answer is NO. The answer explains it self why. I would keep away from both because the saying goes save your drama for someone elses momma.
2007-01-31 14:41:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think i would take lots of thinking time and most likely dump my boyfriend because he is obviously a liar. as for his brother, it depends what my feelings for him are. it would probably be a bit difficult to date him at first since i would be very confused and feel decieved but if i did have strong feelings for the brother i will probably date him in the long run. as for you. you should wait to ask her out until you feel the time is right. just be her shoulder to lean on for right now
2007-01-31 14:52:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Option one. But why do you ask, do you know of a real life situation based on what you said?
What do True Blue and Bubbles mean by ADD?
2007-01-31 14:40:54 · answer #8 · answered by Strawberry_Lynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump your boyfriend immediately because he lied to you & then get away from both of them.
2007-01-31 14:59:25 · answer #9 · answered by farzaneh_sadeghi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#2 is the closest to what I would do...b/c if I actually loved him I wouldn't just dump him like a hot bun...I'd go up to him and tell him what his brother said....if he admits everything is fine...I tell him to never lie to me like that again b/c it's pointless...if he denies...I have no choice but to believe him... I mean i can't read minds
2007-01-31 15:30:05 · answer #10 · answered by 1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, is this a true???
i think i would go for option 3
i hate fakes! and ugly guys become attactive after you get to know them
just remember, the most prettiest girls are with ugly guys. why? because they see right though them.
2007-01-31 14:48:31 · answer #11 · answered by Karolina m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋