Most women like to control their husbands to a degree (or think they do). However I’ve noticed a pattern that a lot of women like to be in control of the relationship and then like their usually laid back husbands to throw them down and be super dominate in the bedroom. Sound familiar to a lot of you younger women out there (under 35)?
2007-01-31 06:25:47 · 20 answers · asked by golf4everdude 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, i am the exact same way. I am generally pretty in "control' of our marriage but in the bedroom i want him to take the lead and be agressive.
2007-01-31 06:57:08 · answer #1 · answered by harv_Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-23 23:17:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women get bored of being the controlling type after awhile. Most women like the man to be dominent. But it's nice to take turns in the bedroom.
2007-01-31 06:40:35 · answer #3 · answered by Emily S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
number one love your name! number two love to be controlled but only in the bedroom a little rough too is great. outside the bedroom would hate to be controlled but dont want to controll him outside the bedroom why cant it be 50/50 or at least close? im 25 3 kids 1 husband 2 dogs and 1 cat
2007-01-31 09:08:04 · answer #4 · answered by angela C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 25 and I'd have to say ... you're on to something ... lol ... I love it when my man throws me down and takes control ... I'm so tired of making all the decisions myself all day long ... at work ... with the children ... it's my time to lay back and get taken advantage of ... lol ... don't get me wrong I like to be the aggressive one every now and then ... it's just a lot of fun to let loose and not make any decisions for once ... !
2007-01-31 06:43:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH YES!
Women love to be in charge: Checkbook, Cooking, Sewing, Trips, Cash, Bills, Kids, Groceries, Shopping, ETC...
But it would be sooooooooooooooooo hot for my laid back golfer husband who is usually only in for a quickie, to come home and just take over in the bedroom!
You know after 10 years of marriage, my husband still has not talked dirty to me, watched a porn with me, taken pics of me, had me wear lingerie or role play.... and you know what? I WANT ALL THAT!
I'm a typical hot housewife and PTA mom and I want my man to just take charge ONLY IN THE BEDROOM!!!
But b/c of his lack of communication and turning me down in the past, I really need him to come on to me and make me feel sexy. It's amazing what a woman WON'T do when she is made to feel hot.
I wish my guy noticed me more than he does. :)
(I'm 30 and the older I get, the more X-rated my thoughts get - I LOVE IT!!!)
2007-01-31 06:39:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am just the opposite. He can have all the control in public he wants but in the sack I am the one in control.
But on occasion I like for him to take over too but that is when I tell him so in a way I am in control of it anyway.
2007-01-31 06:31:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds true. I am a woman who knows what i want and how to get it. My man is a little timid. When it comes to "bedroom" time, he better turn it up. Throw me around, pull hair what ever the case. BE in charge!!!!
2007-01-31 06:32:22 · answer #8 · answered by kcastillo1220 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I like it when my husband is dominate in the bedroom. He likes it when I'm dominate. Either way, we like to switch it up and we have a great sex life.
2007-01-31 06:32:56 · answer #9 · answered by *Just Married* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow I don't think so. I have a wonderful sex life with my husband and being thrown down just isn't in that picture. We can get wild but we arent throwing anyone down.
2007-01-31 06:36:22 · answer #10 · answered by MissT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋