i am 8 months pregnant and my husband seems very withdrawn from me. he works a lot..he has started volunteering for things at work....he doesn't ever initiate sex...he subscribed to playboy tv. it's like he just doesn't want to be around me anymore. could this be because i'm pregnant and he is turned off? he kind of did this when i was pregnant with my son too. but it makes me feel even worse about myself when he acts like this. i asked him if he was having an affair...and of course he said no...so why the hell is he acting so strange???
2007-01-31 06:22:25 · 12 answers · asked by aagee1003 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He probably thinks he will hurt the baby. Ride him.
2007-01-31 06:26:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to talk to him seriously and get this figured out now. Start with cancelling the porn channel - that is just totally disrespectful of you. This is a time when you need a supportive, loving husband. I don't know what I would have done without a lusting husband when I was all hormonal and all over him when I was pregnant!
2007-01-31 07:30:03 · answer #2 · answered by Lydia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Me and the "father" of my baby ain't together anymore and he's got another girl pregnant now. . So of course I hate him. . But I know what ur talkin about there is a guy I got along great with for yrs and when I was goin thru his alone he was with me from week six til 13 and two weeks ago I just got so irritated at him even for no reason I started hating him so ended it and went our own ways
2016-03-15 02:54:25 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you know what I think that you should really talk to your husband and tell him how you feel,discuss things with him.Tell him you feel ignored and let him know that your still in the mood too.Dress up in something sexy and show him that you still got it girl strut your stuff,let him know what he's missing out on.Your carrying his baby he should be rubbing your acheing feet,massageing your shoulders and give you what you want.Speak up girl.
2007-01-31 06:34:21 · answer #4 · answered by Angel wings 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men feel odd about putting their penis where the baby resides.
Me on the other hand thinks there's nothing more sexy than a mommy to be!
2007-01-31 06:39:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
AS A MAN WITH 3 KIDS I THINK HE JUST THINKS YOU ARE UNTOUCHABLE AS FAR AS SEX GOES. THERE ARE ONLY A FEW MEN YOU THINK THIS WAY. I THINK PREGNANT WOMEN ARE SEXY AS HELL BUT THAT'S JUST ME. MY WIFE AND I HAD SEX UP TO ABOUT TWO WEEKS BEFORE BIRTH. SO YOUR HUSBAND IS JUST A STRANGE BIRD. IF HE DOESN'T WANT TO GET IN THE SADDLE WITH YOU IN TWO MONTHS AFTER THE BABY IS BORN, THEN HE IS HAVING AN AFFAIR.
2007-01-31 06:30:46 · answer #6 · answered by DEL _INSACRAMENTO 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some men get like that, talk to him and tell him exactly how he makes you feel! I would maybe suggest no more kids too if you can't handle this. GL
2007-01-31 06:26:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 6 months pregnant (with our 1st child) and my husband loves my new sexy body. Talk to him. Flat out ask him why he's lost desire to be sexually intimate with you.
2007-01-31 06:38:14 · answer #8 · answered by *Just Married* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are inconsiderate to their wives when they are pregnant. When my wife was pregnant I think it made her look more beautiful than before. She looked so radiant plus I was very excited about being a father
2007-01-31 06:31:36 · answer #9 · answered by andyramvzb 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's acting weird because he knows once baby # 2 is born, he's going to go to being last on the food chain. He's going to be a typical ignored husband. He knows that the romance in his life is over.
2007-01-31 06:33:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋