do u agree that couples are too quick to divorce instead of toughing it out like our parents and grandparents?

Answer 1

Well I believe marriage is forever, right or wrong, bad or good. Yes I believe people just don't try hard.

Marriage is a full time job and you have to work on it everyday. Trust, love, communication,feelings, teamwork, etc... It's easy to divorce this day in age. I believe people give up to quick.

Answer 2

I have to disagree ... I think people get married for the wrong reasons and get divorced for the right ones ... !

Growing up .. I use to pray my parents would get a divorce - but they " stuck in there " for the children ... I think we had a bad childhood because of all the fighting ... and feel we saw too much that we never should have ... they waited until we all moved out and then divorced ... I was so upset - 20 years we had to put up with their bullsh*t ... for what - them to say oh well ... everyone is older now - lets move on with our lives ... it sucks ... !

Toughing it out only makes things worse ... in the long run - at least that's my opinion ... !

Answer 3

Not necessarily, these are different times. There are many people, who are older, that I talked to who said they wouldn't have gotten divorced when they were younger if it hadn't been so taboo. But, they stayed married, and really weren't that happy. There are many couple's who remained together, but really weren't in a relationship. That is why you see today, people married 20 and 30 years getting divorced. Most of them haven't been happy for a long time, but the "stuck it out". That is why you see so many couple's getting divorced right around the time the youngest child heads to college.

Answer 4

I agree to an extent. Being unfaithful or putting up with violence in my book is forgiveable but not forgetable and that is my only grounds for a divorce. Other than that, people getting divorced for sex problems, not being able to have kids, money problems, 'irreconciable differences or w/e, they are all down right stupid reasons to get a divorce, things like that can always be worked through, I believe!!!

Answer 5

people at present are so overloaded with dealing with the challenge of earning a residing that they lack any capability to artwork out marital issues. in many cases they rush into marriage questioning it's going to make issues extra advantageous yet marriage isn't a crutch for existence. people might desire to appreciate the dedication made in marriage demands severe attempt to make contributions to no longer in basic terms get. Frustrations with profession and finance get tempers short then what might have been an harmless fake impact turns right into a substantial conflict. the two companions might desire to artwork on the relationship. while you're continually the only that supplies then the relationship is a waste. the newborn isn't a reason to stay together by using fact if there is open friction in front of the newborn it would desire to motives issues interior the form of values of the newborn. positioned actuality in place and communicate it out with the mate. If there is not any longer a renewed attempt to artwork issues out initiate making plans for the destiny after the marriage is over.

Answer 6

Absolutely! Many people are too quick to throw it all away instead of trying to work things out...as long as there is not physical abuse or cheating involved.

People go through many stages in life and marriage is no exception to change. It just takes a while to adjust.

Too many think that the grass in greener.....

Answer 7

Not always. Some parents and grandparents should of gotten a divorce instead of living in misery.

Answer 8

I think a lot of things can be worked out with counseling except serial cheating or violence. A lot of people right here think their lovelife and their personal happiness is more important than their families and don't understand how important it is for kids to have an intact family. Many justify their selfishness by saying it's "better for the kids" and refuse to compromise or behave kindly toward each other. They expect their kids to get along with each other but don't expect the same from themselves.
Marriage isn't 50-50...that's childish. You have to be willing to go 80-20 if need be.
True love and marriage means putting the happiness of others/your family above yourself.

Answer 9

Absolutely. Marriage has become a matter of convenience. If it gets hard just get a divorce. No big deal. Makes me sad.

Answer 10

absolutelly, and the reasson is because most marriages today are for love, which has its ups and downs, not for the moral of marriage and family life, result of exposure to all celebrity style living