My b/f and I broke up over something stupid and we've been talking off and on since we broke up. A few days after we broke up and I hadnt called him for a day b/c all we did was fight he called me and seemed upset that I hadn called. The 1st weekend after we broke up I drove to his house to try and talk but he was asleep. He called me the next morning to tell me that he was sleeping and that he would have let me in and talked. I asked him if he was mad that I drove in and he said no then I asked if he was happy and he said he didnt know. The following weekend I drove in and this time we talked for a few hours. He said he still thought about me, missed me & loved me. He even kissed me & we had sex. This weekend he told me that he was trying to borrow money but noone would lend him any...he was going to drive up to my school to see me. It seems like in some ways he does want to get back together but he hardly ever calls & when I call him he says he has to call me back & doesnt
2007-01-31 05:55:45 · 11 answers · asked by Angeleyes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Thanks for the advice so far everyone I also forgot to mention that I got a random phone call from him the other day saying that he got a second interview with a job for the city and said he "just had to tell someone hte good news"
2007-01-31 06:14:01 · update #1
I'm not trying to be mean her sweetie, but you need to move on.
He's just dragging you around waiting until he makes up his mind.
Why would he change anything? You are putting all the effort and giving him sex, do yo see the problem here. Not to be blunt, but you are now his *****. Dont' put up with that, no man is worth losing who you are. Let him go, he will either realize he's screwing up, or he will move on. Either way you will be happier.
2007-01-31 06:08:37 · answer #1 · answered by Chrissy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing stopping him calling you back, or talking to you on the phone if he wanted to. Maybe either he's confused about what he wants or he still loves you but doesn't want to get back with you. My advice to you would be 1) don't have sex with him again until you find out what it is he wants, 2) don't call him, 3) don't drive in. If he loves and misses you enough he'll contact you, but don't let him make any booty calls.
2007-01-31 14:04:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it a while k try this
- 1st DONT call him 4awhile let him wonder what your up toits going to be hard but make ur self not call him.
- 2nd the first time he calls u back DONT answer keep him wondering.
-3rd he should call u back u can answer but tell him your kinda bust an u will call him back in a few mins.
-4th keep ur self busy. DONT call him back that nite eather
-5th call him back the next day an tell him you've been VERY busy. Keep him wondering an next thing u know he'll be begging to come see you!!!!!
give it a try... Good luck
2007-01-31 14:10:03 · answer #3 · answered by rebel girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie I am going to be very blunt but this is what you need. Dont take offense., You drive to HIS house, you give him sex, you call him when you fight, and now he needs to borrow money? this is ridiculous, he is using you, and why shouldnt he? you are making it so easy for him. Heres your answer, No he doesnt love you, and if you want to know if he wants to get back together, yes and no, sure he will be with you and string you along, but no you will not be of any importance to him. If you want to be a stupid girl and wait it out go ahead, but dont get pregnant or any diseases
2007-01-31 14:04:31 · answer #4 · answered by monica your new bff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you're looking for advice, tips or answers, but you're looking in all of the wrong places. All we can do is suggest things, but you've got to work things out between you and him, and only you and him can fix things, so call him up, tell him you're serious, if you want him back, tell him enough of the games you want to be serious again, but if you feel that it just will not work between the both of you, maybe you just need to let him go and move on. Good luck!
2007-01-31 14:04:20 · answer #5 · answered by GiNkNee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep on talking to each other and if things are meant to be they will work out.
You say drive to see him. Is he in college? if so money gets to be very short and there's always a lot of things that are on a college students mind so, maybe he's not blowing you off he is just trying to keep up with all the things at school.
Good Luck to you
2007-01-31 14:02:07 · answer #6 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well it seems like he does want u back but his acting hard to get becuz u guys broke up...he doesnt want to seem easy to get back...most guys dont like to talk on the fone and ma friend was in a serious relationship wit diz guy n wen he wud call she wud say i will call u back n didnt becuz things come up....so dont take that serious, its just how some ppl r but if he lets u stay in his life still then that means he doesnt want 2 lose u....
2007-01-31 14:04:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him some space. You are making all the effort. Back off and wait for him to contact you.
2007-01-31 14:00:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'll call you when he wants sex again. And if you don't think you deserve any better, you'll probably do him again. I bet he asks you to give him money, too.
2007-01-31 14:01:38 · answer #9 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-31 14:00:03 · answer #10 · answered by slashcamy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋