Have you ever lost ANY KIND of trust in your partner....how did it make you feel?

Question

Is it possible to get it back what would you do

Answer 1

I'm now divorced, but yes of course during the marriage there were trust issues. When my husband broke my trust, all I can say is that it hurt, it made me question other things he had done and said, made me question his commitment to our children and our marriage. It ultimately ended our marriage (along with many other reasons), but broken trust doesn't always have to lead to divorce.

When someone breaks your trust, you often put up a wall because you don't want to be hurt again, but that doesn't help the situation. First of all, have you decided that your husband deserves forgiveness? You know how they say love isn't a feeling, it's a choice? Well same goes for trust. You have to just decide to trust him. And when fear or doubt creeps up, you have to squash it and reassure yourself. Your partner also has to be willing to deal with the fact that they have to earn your trust back by being transparent, and that they aren't allowed to get angry if you're questioning them.

Good luck

Answer 2

My husband cheated on me and I found out 3 months ago. I feel cheated, dirty, angry, miserable, ugly, most of all empty. While I have been still trying to make a run at my marriage, I'm finding that it's not going to work. There will never be that trust again and that hurts the most. Time heals all wounds and the next time you get into a relationship you become just a little more cautious about what you do with your heart. I hope this helps.

Answer 3

Once trust is lost it's extremely hard to regain.... but it IS possible.


First of all it depends on what kind of trust... financial, intimacy, etc.

I have lost trust before and for the most part I was able to regain it yet in the back of my mind the issue still haunts me.

It all depends on the person. Are you the type that can forgive and forget? If not, the trust will never fully be regained because you will never forget. That's what happened with me.

Answer 4

Yes, I lost trust when I found out he was on the internet. He was on the internet with a previous relationship before we met. But, he was not just chatting. He was watching her take her shirt off and asking to look at her breast. Which she was enjoying. Then he ask for her phone number and if she had a boyfriend. Said he would be her boyfriend.

We were only married four months.

This hurt me, I am prettier than she is and have more class. I have never had this happen to me. It did major damage for my trust in him and hurt my self esteem.

I am trying to get it back. He said he was just playing and would not do it again.

Good luck! I hope you do not hurt for long. It still hurts me I'm trying to get over it.

Answer 5

I would say the start of the end of our relationship was when I came home on leave and found a picture of her at a strip club. Right after that I found an empty condom wrapper on her dresser and she had an excuse for it but it just didn't matter. It all just caused my love for feel broken. I still would love to be with her but that just seems a little insane now. There are alot more details and things but another day perhaps.

Answer 6

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Answer 7

Trust is a very important thing in a relationship, but when it's gone it takes a long time to regain trust for someone who you love so much. It hurts alot, but I do believe in time it can come back. How long is up to each individual circumstance.

Answer 8

Yes it has happened to me. I've been married for 12 years and it is possible to get it back, but you have to work at it. This is an everyday thing, and you have to be prepared, because it might take a long time, but it can be done. For me, choosing to forgive, and decide to not bring up the past, has worked, but I don't recommend it for everyone. It is hard, but it's a daily thing, takes time. Good luck.

Answer 9

Yes, I have and I felt completely let down and disappointed..it is possible to get it back you just have to work at it..talk to your partner and let them know how you feel..let them know that its going to be hard for you to regain that trust and that they need to be understanding of that..if they cant do that then its not worth the effort..Good luck

Answer 10

I was engaged to be married a few years back. I trusted him completely, but that all changed when he got fired from his work for sexual harassment. I couldn't trust him at all anymore, so I broke it off with him.

I'm now happily married to a wonderful man and have a beautiful baby, so I'm glad things worked out the way they did.

It's hard to get trust back, you just have to work at it, and take it slow...make them work for it.