I married a dominating woman and I’ve been asking questions about how to handle her and I love the feedback I’m getting from you women. If I could marry you all I would! But I do love my dominant female so she’s the only one for me. Well I pulled rank on her this morning and took the wind out of her sails and now she wants to jump on me like there’s no tomorrow (after trying to lay the pity party guilt thing on me. Seems also like a trick of dominating women. When they know they lose they turn submissive just to get control and then turn back to dominating when it doesn’t work). So now I’m looking for addition advice on how to handle you all when you mouth off and just throw a tantrum to get what you want (come on you all know you do it). Some have said not to even flinch when you all get all dominating and you’ll stop arguing and respect us more. Does that work? It also seems like you all like to be dominating but then like us to throw you down and make the call when it comes to the bedroom? Are you all really submissives in disguise? Or only about certain areas in the relationship? Seems like all you dominating wives have the same things that you like and dislike. So bring them on girls, you’re really helping me with my wife (even though she thinks she’s still in control). It’s fun and it makes our relationship that much better.
2007-01-31 05:40:53 · 3 answers · asked by golf4everdude 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you are wrong my friend --you are the one being led to THINK you are in control
2007-01-31 06:11:19 · answer #1 · answered by gabby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"looking for addition advice on how to handle you all when you mouth off and just throw a tantrum to get what you want" <---- I'm guessing that's your question. What pisses me off most is when my husband walks away. Well, it pisses me off at first but than i think about what was said. You were right, don't flinch. Keep a calm voice, tell her what you think and end the argument right then and there. You just made me realize that I AM submissive in disguise. Women love challenges so we'll test how much we can push our men before they set their foot down. The guilt trip is usually a guarantee on getting what we want - but when we don't, we want to work for it (or is it just me). Hope this helps. Have fun with your wife.
2007-01-31 13:56:56 · answer #2 · answered by K9Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SO WHAT'S THE QUESTION, SPECIFICALLY?
2007-01-31 13:48:33 · answer #3 · answered by SPANKY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋