My friend cheated on his wife, she knows that he did, but she does not know that the woman was of another race. I know that race is not an issue to a lot of people. But to her it would be. Should I tell her the truth or just stay out of it?
2007-01-31 05:39:43 · 20 answers · asked by musclemansix 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Look friend or no friend this is an issue that you should not even get involved in the least little bit. I'm telling you sooner or later she will find out, but she does not need to find it out from you. One reason people lose friends is because they get involved with other peoples business that is not even none of their business at all. Please stay out of it and in the long run you will be so glad you did.
2007-01-31 05:47:20 · answer #1 · answered by Rooster 1972 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from someone who has been cheated on while all our friends knew about it. It's the most embarrassing thing to know that your husband/wife cheated and you were the last to find out. To answer your question TELL HER! Why let her go through a marriage not knowing the full truth, it's obvious that her husband knows nothing about truth. She is most likely having a rough time in making up her mind to stay or go and this may just push her in the right direction.
2007-01-31 06:18:52 · answer #2 · answered by be happier own a pitbull 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stay out of it completely. THis is between the 2 that are married the fact that your freind confifed in you and then you go and tell his wife would be the ultimate betrayel! I am sure if the shoe were on the other fit you wuld be enraged if he talked to your wife about it at all!
2007-01-31 05:49:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it. She knows he cheated, is dealing with enough already, why add to her misery, especially a useless detail like race?
2007-01-31 06:01:19 · answer #4 · answered by some1invegas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont really need to tell her that she was of another race... This is not that big of a deal... you need to stay out of it... Since she already knows about it let it go... If he wants to tell her that part then let him be the one to do it.. You may only make things worse if you butt in.
2007-01-31 05:53:40 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you tell her your friendship will be over. You need to decide if you want to be associated with a cheater for a friend. If you are the type of person who believes in doing the right thing no matter what the costs are...then tell her, but know your friendship will be over.
2007-01-31 06:14:24 · answer #6 · answered by Jacob's Mommy (Plus One) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it. She knows he cheated and she can find out the rest on her own. If she was smart she would.
2007-01-31 06:01:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are wanting to tell her.......What is your Motive in telling her that info......I wouldn't care if the woman was green.....he still cheated. It's up to her to leave because he cheated.....do not add fuel to the fire unless you want to be burned.
2007-01-31 05:44:53 · answer #8 · answered by Been There Done That 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd recommend staying out of it. You won't know if she wants it brought up again. You could upset her, and then she'd be angry with you.
2007-01-31 05:44:33 · answer #9 · answered by Faith 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it.
2007-01-31 05:48:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋