I recently intruded on my husband in the bathroom and caught him masturbating. He was coming as I walked in. I believe I may have over reacted and threw him out of the appartment without his pants or underwear. Is there something wrong with our marriage, is it because I am not attractive anymore. I really want our marriage to last. Please help with suggestions.
Thank,
DV
2007-01-31 05:29:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
All men play with themselves, even when they are happy and married. It's just their nature. I understand that you feel threatend and that this tickles yoru insecurities, but honestly, this is normal and you should not be concerned.
I believe that you overreacted and you owe him an apology.
Good luck
2007-01-31 05:39:11 · answer #1 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masturbating is a natural thing for guys. Just because he was masturbating doesn't mean he isn't attracted to you anymore. Sometimes guys get lazy and would rather masturbate than have sex. I think he was in the bathroom to get some type of privacy, he probably didn't want you to see and feel uncomfortable. It sounds like you should have a real talk and be clear about your feelings an concerns, sometimes its a lack of communication that causes these kinds of things. Good luck!
2007-01-31 06:13:59 · answer #2 · answered by luvlygrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think that you over reacted maybe alittle. There is nothing wrong with your husband masturbating. Maybe you should've asked him if there was anything wrong with your sex life and you guys can explore different things. I am married myself, and I know first hand that things can get boring. Next time masturbate for him.
2007-01-31 05:44:30 · answer #3 · answered by Wifey06242005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if this isn't a joke, then saying that you overreacted is an understatement.
If you want a lasting marriage, and if your husband has returned for his underwear, you'd better apologize, and fast.
2007-01-31 05:42:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you overreacted and probably hurt his feelings terribly. Masturbation is a normal and healthy part of being a sexual human being - you should try it some time.
2007-01-31 06:23:54 · answer #5 · answered by Bayou Boy in Tx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really masterbating is as normal to men as breathing. Girl you completely over reacted.
2007-01-31 05:50:37 · answer #6 · answered by blueblossom33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a feeling this is fake.
If it is real you overreacted big time. Like shooting someone for picking their nose.
If I was your husband I wouldn't come back.
2007-01-31 05:37:08 · answer #7 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you are a drama queen. guys and girls masturbate even if they have gf/bf wives/hubbys. you overreacted BIG TIME. you need to understand that he needs his space and do things by himself. it's not that he is not attracted to you, it's that we all need our space and sometimes we dont need to have sex!
2007-01-31 05:50:43 · answer #8 · answered by chikis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
apologize and don't make a big deal about it..next time offer to "help him out"
2007-01-31 05:44:33 · answer #9 · answered by big one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like you never masterbated before....lol...sounds like you have a case of Im perfect and your not..nanaa poo poo...
2007-01-31 05:40:25 · answer #10 · answered by nivlac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋