im starting a new school and i don't know a soul what is the best way to ;earn how to get use of it and how to make great friends without the haters please help i am nervous and i don't suppose to be scared because im a cheerleader but im very social so it shouldn'tbe that bad any comments!!!!!!
2007-01-31 05:12:05 · 4 answers · asked by jasmyn w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
join some clubs or some fun groups a sport or something. even if your terrible that way you can meet people fast
2007-01-31 05:17:41 · answer #1 · answered by swimmyfishy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember 10% of the people around you don't like you no matter what you do. And 10% love you no matter what, and the other 80% don't care either way. So just sit back and watch in the beginning and don't tell anyone something you don't want to hear again. Unless you're testing their loyalty. If your happy with your life and satisfied someone will envy that because misery loves company.
2007-01-31 05:27:46 · answer #2 · answered by lil Trouble 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Keep in touch with your previous friends(e-mail,letters,meeting...
Organise a big party(food,music,dance) invite all new schoolmates and segregate some of them who you believe their suitable for you. Don't look desperate, be confident,helpful and amusing everybody will accept you and soon you will find intimate friends.I have experienced that situation too, i made efforts,i made mistakes, i have hurt myself. However now i have find the best friend in the world!, i feel happy with her and i have been fullly integrated in the classroom!! Good luck! I'm sure you will get through it !!!!! Be strong!!
2007-01-31 05:21:15 · answer #3 · answered by ....................... 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself no pretending.
First few weeks .. just observe .. don't try to contribute.
Slowly move in .. copy the successfull people ..
Slowly bring in your originality once you have found ur base !
2007-01-31 05:18:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋