Did you leave a great partner to be with someone else thinking it was even better only to find out it wasnt?? Do you regret it?? Please donte tell me to live w/o regrets. People do make mistakes in life. I want to know if those that left truley regretted it?? And did the other person hate you some much you were ashamed to ever go back? Or did you try down the road??
2007-01-31 04:58:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I haven't found it to be greener. And I don't know anyone that has. I do however, know plenty that have found once they got to the other side that after a while it was pretty much the same. So, that leads me to believe the problem was the "The One That Left" to begin with. Some people want something else thinking they will be happy. Once they get it they still aren't happy. The problem is them and they didn't change anything about themselves. They expect another person will make them happy. If you aren't happy with yourself, it doesn't matter who you are with, you won't be happy.
2007-01-31 05:10:40 · answer #1 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I found someone that seems to Love me for me. Now what could possibly be greener?
Hot bod? Big money? I have been waiting all my life to feel the Love I feel now. Not sure how one can top that.
I never left someone and regretted it but...
My wife left me for someone else...came back...left me again. So sure regret must be in every cheaters heart but it is hard to take back what has already been done.
That is why they say no regrets, and move on. That is all you can do.
The bottom line is things either work out or don't work out for a reason. You cannot force love to happen it just does.
2007-01-31 13:16:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never regret the things youve done, only the things you didnt. Most people are truly loving and forgiving. If the one you left truly loves you, they will know that you left seaching for happiness, only to find that you already had it...Never be ashamed of your true feelings or to admit that you have made a mistake.
Hope that helps !!
2007-01-31 13:15:09 · answer #3 · answered by notso_recoveringwino 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just always remember - although the grass may appear greener on the other side, it still has to be mowed....we all make decisions that we somewhat regret in time, but procrastinating is just as bad...you have to do what is right for you - no matter what the outcome
2007-01-31 13:09:37 · answer #4 · answered by beachnut222000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My fiance left his wife for me. We never cheated when they were together. For three years he had guilt attacks and kept going back to her, even though she cheated on him and they had no children, he couldn't just throw it away without trying to make it work. I waited. We are to be married in July and he is finally over those feelings.
2007-01-31 13:06:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sucks but you made your bed, now lay in it!
2007-01-31 13:08:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋