I am constantly questioning my love for my boyfriend and I want to know how others know they are not in love with their significant other anymore
Thanks!
2007-01-31 04:55:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Obviously this relationship isn't meant to be if you're spending your time constantly questioning your feelings. Break up so he can find a woman who is sure about him. Why are you still with him?
2007-01-31 04:59:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been with my man for ten years, I don't so much question if I love him but I do question if I could really spend the rest of my life with him forsaking all others!!?? Then I meet people and realize that that I deal with from him is nothing to what other women put up with and he puts up with my crap so well.
I just really could imagine starting all over again because although there's nothing like the feeling of something new, there's really nothing like having a person who truly gets you to go home to after spending the day in a world of people who don't!
2007-01-31 13:05:18 · answer #2 · answered by tonafun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years, I fell out of love with him about 3 months ago. I got tired of his lies and neglect of our relationship. I felt like my heart could not give anymore love especially knowing that it was being taken for granted. So if you are feeling neglected in your relationship, or are maturing (which I did also) you begin asking these questions and feeling like you arent' sure it's love. If it is love, you will feel respected and secure, and if not, then it's more of a coming together out of "a hybrid of troubles", the attraction is based on something that happened.
2007-01-31 13:06:59 · answer #3 · answered by fan_wan :-) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i can say for sure you don't love him, when you are in love you love to see him, walk, talk, get all excited when he's around,. When you aren't in love you question, why do i find what he does annoying anymore? Why does he not look good in that anymore? Why am i with him? Get the pic!? so if you have to even ask this question than no you aren't. Best of luck
2007-01-31 13:06:11 · answer #4 · answered by sweetemtation_123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was with my ex for 5 years ... and we were happy and he treated me well and everything. So, for me falling out of love was hard to detect also ...
But, here's some examples of how I felt:
1. I didn't feel as strongly anymore for him
2. I used to want to marry him and have his kids, but my feeling changed and I didn't really want to think about marrying him, let alone really tying the knot
3. When he's gone, I didn't really miss him ...
4. I'd rather be at work at night than be with him at home ....
5. Our fights didn't bother me as much as it used to be ... I guess I started not to care ...
6. Lastly, I wanted to start seeing other people ...
So, before I did something stupid like cheating on him ... I told him that I wanted to take a break ...
Well, hope it helps ...
Good luck!!!
2007-01-31 13:02:54 · answer #5 · answered by Nicegal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With my husband, I knew something wasn't right because everything that he did was just annoying..I didn't want to be lovable anymore, and to kiss him was more like a habit than a emotion to show affection.. At lease this is your boyfriend than a husband.. You have a good head on your shoulders if you see the signs and have questions than to ignore it and do something you will regret later..
2007-01-31 13:02:42 · answer #6 · answered by ksk_05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you can tell if you dont want to be with this person, you just see him as a friend or as just another person in this world. Thats how I think, people feel when they no longer feel anything for their significant other.
2007-01-31 13:06:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Questioning your love is clearly a sigh that your love has started to fade away.If you don't enjoy the company of your boyfriend is a pretty clear sigh too.But you can always tell by yourself if you aren't attracted anymore by your mate!
2007-01-31 13:03:39 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my wife is my best freind not my best lover, so its hard for me to answer. all I can say is i would rather marry my best freind than best lover. so much deeper. I never question if I still love her.
2007-01-31 13:01:23 · answer #9 · answered by jake s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋