Do you feel it is worth losing your spouse and family over? When and if you have cheated have you felt guilty and sorry for what you have done and have you tried to work it out with your spouse afterwards?
2007-01-31 04:50:54 · 19 answers · asked by WhyNotMe 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Most people that cheat are not looking for it, it happens only because the relationship they are in now is missing something. If one or both parties are blind to the others needs and don't recognize them or try to rectify it before it gets out of hand, one partner will most likely stray and seek others to fufill their needs. It's a cry for attention and for many they want their partner to recognize their unhappiness and hope their partner will stay and work things out for the better.
For me it's took years to overcome his questionable activities when we were first married and my poor judgement to seek someone else. It was not easy but we overcame it and are better for it. People make mistakes (nobody is immune) but if both parties are willing to fight for their marriage it is possible and when they succeed they become better partners, because of it.
2007-01-31 05:34:40 · answer #1 · answered by trojan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No that is in no way nicely worth it!!! it may sense good and fulfilling a 2nd or couple of minutes yet there are effects for doing incorrect on your better half and marriage... One evening of pastime or cheating or perhaps an affair tears down what you have geared up which includes your spouse or husband and relatives and that's particularly stressful to rebuild the relationship and have faith after that.... No i don't sense that is nicely worth it in any respect and if human beings might think of until now doing this there may well be much less cheating occurring.
2016-11-01 23:29:44 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all cheaters would stop and think about if it's worth it, half wouldn't cheat. No it's not. You have alot to lose if you are caught and chances are you WILL get caught cheating, I don't care who it is. I myself would never think of cheating , I wouldn't want it done to me so why do it to someone else? And I have found that once a person has cheated they blow that trust and it will take a long time to build it again if it can ever be built.
2007-01-31 04:56:53 · answer #3 · answered by Lace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my feeling about it...people shouldn't get married. if i had children, i think i would feel differently about cheating. i think if a person cheats, it is simply because they are seeking something else. it happens all the time (more than people like to admit), couples either accept the fact that it happened and hope it doesn't happen again, or they divorce...simple as that.
i'm sure a cheater feels guilty about being unfaithful, but if you look at those people who have been unfaithful to their spouses, it has happened more than once...
2007-01-31 04:57:39 · answer #4 · answered by **Lil QT** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No cheating is never worth losing your spouse and family. Just because you were too selfish to realize what you had doesn't make it right. I think if some one cheats they deserve what ever happens afterwards. Once a cheater always a cheater and cheaters don't deserve happiness.
2007-01-31 05:08:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on the relationship. I think people who want to separate from their spouse or family cheat on purpose and get caught on purpose. If you are completely happy, why would you risk that for something that may end up being completely meaningless?
2007-01-31 05:08:59 · answer #6 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheated on 1st wife (no kids) NEVER felt a bit guilty about it..shows you how much I valued the relationship - eventually divorced her. NEVER EVER cheated with wife #2 (and never will) We've been happily married for 24 years.
2007-01-31 05:33:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I couldn't imagine anything, specially sex would be worth loosing my husband and family over. Sex is something anyone can have, finding love and really loving someone is special and takes years to find. So no cheating is never worth it. I have never cheated and would never, my husband and his love and respect for me is worth more than anything I can ever imagine. People who cheat are selfish and think of nothing but their own happiness.
2007-01-31 04:57:04 · answer #8 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not worth it ever!!! Trust me on this one. Not only the guilt but also losing someone over doing it is not worth it now is it... Also what about STD's and things like that.... I cheated on my first husband and it was terrible... Needless to say our marriage ended in tradgedy and sadness... yes i was guilty and sad.
2007-01-31 05:14:56 · answer #9 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never, and will never cheat on my husband. Your are not only cheating on your spouse but on yourself as well. If hubby ever cheated on me( not that he would), he would be taken to the curb because I don't think I could ever trust him again.
2007-01-31 04:54:11 · answer #10 · answered by Bridgette B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋