sorry, but I just feel they are waaaaay too much work. I don't even have any, but whenever I see people with them, it's constant bickering, fighting, constant commands, it's just plain dumb in my eyes. Does anyone agree with me?
sorry but it's just the way I feel, and its' my opinion.
2007-01-31 04:46:07 · 24 answers · asked by godzillasagoodman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
OMG yes yes yes!!!! that is EXACTLY how i feel and think! I really don't know why people have children. Its not like I'm a hater or i'm evil or something I just think children are ...just....an unnecessarry issue people add into their lives. I don't have any children and I have no intension of having any. Its just too much trouble, too work intensive and such a huge responsibility for the rest of ur life and the rest of their life...and is that a loooong time or what!!!I'm glad i'm not the only one!
2007-01-31 04:54:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not, I felt the same way.. I now have 3 kids.. When you see other people and the kids are fighting, yelling and just plain out crazy, you think what the hell are they doing .. But believe me, when they are yours, you don't think that at all. Yes they will go through stages like asking every question in the book, but that is just a part of you, some little person that YOU made getting smarter by the minute.. It is a wonderful thing..But remember this is coming from a mom.. My brother loves my kids but they are just not for him.. Maybe you having a little one just isn't for you.. But thats OK..
2007-01-31 12:58:50 · answer #2 · answered by ksk_05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having had a few - I have to disagree. There as been nothing in my life more fulfilling than my children - and yes I do have a career. Yes, it is a lot of work ,it's lots of bickering, lots of power struggles - but to watch my children grow it loving, caring adults has been worth ever minute. And now I am watching my children become parents!
2007-01-31 12:53:37 · answer #3 · answered by wild_orchid_tx36 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet your mom said the same thing...lol
Honestly, we were ALL a kid at one time . But if you ask your Mom, I bet she would say she wouldn't have it any other way. Kids might seem like a pain (as you put it) but if you were a parent I'm sure you would say it's all worth it. And you also have to realize that not all kids are the same. It depends on how they are raised and what discipline they receive. Take a look around .
2007-01-31 12:52:50 · answer #4 · answered by Lace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all in the parenting....Kids are a blessing anyway you look at them...They bring a smile to a parents face when the parent has had a rough day at work...they give the best love known to man kind...unconditional. Sure, they are just like anyone else, they don't listen at times, or give you a hard time...but all in all, they are wonderful! I wouldn't trade my kids for anything...they are the best part of me....
2007-01-31 13:14:57 · answer #5 · answered by Latino Heat 4ever 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
children are a pain! But I also remember all of the great times I have with them. Its not always bad. Most of the time people focus on the negative things in life, never the good. I love my 2 children thru thick and thin!
2007-01-31 12:52:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if I agree that kids are a pain. I think it takes a lot of commitment, responsibility and hard work to raise healthy and happy children and not everyone's cut out for that. I don't think you should think that kids are bad for everyone and you should respect those that choose to have kids.
2007-01-31 12:55:05 · answer #7 · answered by married2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your looking at it the wrong way. Think how much joy they can bring. Seeing you in them and watching them grow like weeds. You really don't know what your missing. I think the enjoyment over powers the fighting 100%!
2007-01-31 12:50:30 · answer #8 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you do have a right to your opinion.
I however love my children, I do not feel that they are pains, but yes they do bicker, are alot of work, but I wouldn't trade them for the world.
2007-01-31 12:50:26 · answer #9 · answered by Bridgette B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your parents felt the same way you wouldn't be in marriage and divorce asking this stupid question. I have two kids and I couldn't imagine life without them!
2007-01-31 13:06:02 · answer #10 · answered by jeter2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋