My boyfriend is taking Avodart to treat an enlarged prostate. It's effected his libido and erectile abilities. We're having a problem connecting in the intimacy arena of our relationship. He doesn't seem to understand that my needs haven't changed, while his has. In order to save our relationship, I thought I would get some feedback on how to deal with this issue. Thank you.
2007-01-31 04:45:35 · 9 answers · asked by Sherbears 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
instead of wasting time on here, talk to him openly and honestly. discuss your needs and see if he is willing to help. have him use toys, oral, fingers, cucumbers, whatever it takes to help satisfy you. also MAKE him go back to his doctor and explain FULLY the side effects he is having. maybe they can prescribe viagra to help in the e.d. area or change meds for the enlarged prostate. if you were truly in love with each other, this short term situation shouldnt be a problem to endure. be open and have him use things to satisfy you in the mean time! good luck!!!
2007-01-31 07:11:26 · answer #1 · answered by mich_teddybear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In other words, if he doesn't go to the doctor and get this issue resolved you are going to roll out on him? :-/
This is an embarassing thing to deal with and men deal with it differently. First thing YOU need to do is communicate your concerns with him. Tell him how you feel about it and offer your full support. He can't help the fact that his prostate is enlarged, but he does have a say so about the meds. He needs to get his butt to the doctor and get his meds changed.
If your relationship is purely sexual then it should just go ahead and end so he can take care of his issues. Based on your question and statement, it seems that is your main concern anyway. Maybe he can fiind someone who is willing to be there for him and offer their full support regardless of his situation.
2007-01-31 06:46:53 · answer #2 · answered by Goober W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to go back to the doc and get a different med for enlarged prostate. The doc cannot read his mind and has no idea the med is causing side effects for him if he doesn't tell him. Have your boyfriend either call or go see his doc to report the medication side effects to his doc so the doc can figure out the best solution. Does your boyfriend automatically think the doc can read his mind and know he is having side effects from the med?
2007-01-31 04:51:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-01 23:29:02 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love him, you will be there with him through his times of trouble, which CAN be diagnosed and cured. Be patient.
Get him an appointment with a urologist where he will explain his problem and they will treat him for it with Cialis, or Viagra, or whatever the doctor recommends.
It's not that his needs "have changed".. it's a medical condition and he's probably as upset about it as you are.
However, If he's NOT WILLING to get help, then that's your answer..... good bye to him.
2007-01-31 04:55:37 · answer #5 · answered by rob1963man 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As much as that might seem to be so very important in the end it hardly has an affect on the longevity of a loving relationship which isn't based on selfish motives. I have been there.
2007-01-31 05:24:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-31 05:12:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call me, I'll take care of you.
2007-01-31 09:04:21 · answer #8 · answered by ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oral and lots of it.
2007-01-31 05:26:36 · answer #9 · answered by ropemancometh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋