Okay so my ex gf recently moved 2000 miles across the country with her new bf. We had broke up about 8 months ago, after being together for a year. She loved me very much, however I needed time to figure some things out. Pretty much I dont believe I was ready for a commitiment. The thing is before she left we hung out quite a bit. We did alot of talking, and I know she still has feelings for me. I believe possibly more than her current bf. She said she wasnt moving for him(he is going to music school out there), rather she had nothing to lose. And his mom is paying her way her way out there.
IN the 3 weeks since she has been gone I have realized she may be the one for me. I have really analyzed this to make sure I am not letting my emotions cloud my judgement. But, I believe with my heart she may be the one. I am suppose to call her at work today, havent really been able to talk to her since she left. I am not quite sure what I should say on the phone. SHould I tell her how feel?
2007-01-31 04:09:49 · 4 answers · asked by michael b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I dont know if I should tell her completely how I feel over the phone. I mean I dont wanna freak her out or anything. But, when I last hung out with her we went to the beach the night before she left, and she cried in my arms for like a hour. I guess this is a sign she still feels for me right? SHould I just throw my balls to to the walls on this one? Thank you for any support, this has truly been a trying time on my heart. Mike
2007-01-31 04:11:56 · update #1
Yeah, also I am not necessarily trying to make her come back. I feel I just need her to know how I feel and then leave the ball in her hands. But, if she wants to come back that would be incredible.
2007-01-31 04:22:34 · update #2
As long as she's shacking up with and sharing a bed with another guy, she's full of it when she tells you she "has feelings for you". She's not the one. She's a flake.
2007-01-31 04:21:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she does still like you, call her today and tell her you miss her and miss her company. If you believe that she's the one for you then stay in contact with her. Maybe one day she'll realize your the one for her and come back to you. You've gotta keep hope.
Don't let all your feelings out at once, let it out bit by bit but don't rush or overdo it!
Be her friend, the person she'll turn to if she needs help and let her know that you'll always be there for her.
I hope everything turns out the way you want it to, and good luck!
2007-01-31 12:25:38 · answer #2 · answered by lunar_eclipse142 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely tell her how you feel, you have nothing to lose and much to gain.
If she feels the same you will both be happy for it. After all you are alone now so what can it hurt to try.
2007-01-31 12:23:00 · answer #3 · answered by old man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do it, you have nothing more to lose if she is not willing to come back . at least you tried. tell her you're sorry and only realized it now. she would understand. i would .
2007-01-31 12:19:36 · answer #4 · answered by stacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋