me and my wife have been seperated for about 7 months, she is living up the single life and she loves it, we got married very young and weve been together for about 14 years, at this point i miss being a family. do you think she will ever get tired of the single life and want to work things out in the future? o not to mention that she didnt like the way things were going, she said that their has to be more to life than this, i guess marriage lost that excitement for her.plus we have 2 kids.
2007-01-31 04:04:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I had a very similar situation, 2kids..young.. same thing happened to me. Me & wife got bored and wanted to play around and party. My advice is, party it up too while it lasts, and leave the door open for her and you to fix things. Maybe try some blind dates on the nights when you don't have your kids. Stay polite to her and interesting. She will likely want you back at some point this year. And if not, well... you can still look forward to falling in love with someone else next year.
2007-01-31 04:28:05 · answer #1 · answered by al bundy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you need to as husband, go to her and let her know how you feel about her, your family & keeping the marriage together. It's not about what she is out there doing now because in the end she'll have to live with that. Funny how some people can be more worried about what other people think of them than what God thinks of them. Now after you have poured your heart out to her & she still want's to be out there living the single, you can look back on this chapter of your life and in the mirror with no regrets. Because as her husband you honored your commitment to her and the marriage. I know what you're going throught been there and done that, and even though the pain of your wife's actions will hurt like hell. I will share with you & the rest of yahoo answer folks, that what I have come away with in my situation, is.
No man or woman is worth your tears, & the one who is, won't make you cry.
2007-01-31 04:37:31 · answer #2 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes she may get tired of the single life and want to come back eventually. marriage isn't going to be always exciting, and there will be times when things don't suit us, but most people don't run out on a marriage because of that.
2007-01-31 04:12:19 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply ask her what she thinks about being a family again. She'll give you the answer and you can stop wondering what is going on in her head. You deserve to know the truth so that you can move on.
2007-01-31 04:16:57 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just never come back.My ex husband never did.He did enjoy being single.I think he really didnt miss our family and needed something new.The kids suffer.just keep being a good guy and move on with grace.
2007-01-31 04:10:54 · answer #5 · answered by plumcouch30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Start enjoying the single life yourself. She likes that you are hanging on. Get her to move on from you. Keep the kids. You don't want her wh r ng around to be their lives.
2007-01-31 04:15:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any woman that can act that selfish is not worth it. Move on there are plenty of women out there looking for a good guy. Screw her MOVE ON!!!
2007-01-31 04:48:56 · answer #7 · answered by jjeano661 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you both got married to young.
You should talk to her communication is very
important in a relationship
2007-01-31 04:12:25 · answer #8 · answered by jojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she just might not come back- specially if you married young- maybe she feels she's breaking the chains--
2007-01-31 04:12:47 · answer #9 · answered by gabby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce her...
2007-01-31 04:38:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋