Well me and my best friend are so tight. we are always on the phone together and whatever. she promised me, and she never breaks a promise, that she will not let anyone come between us. so because she promised that to me yesterday, i really want to do something really special. What should i do for her? Oh yeah, i forgot. there is a gurl that is trying to steal her away from me on purpose, so what should i do? maybe i could always be around my best friend so that the other gurl wont say anything about me or make my best friend not want be my best friend anymore. i don't know. you people are the smart ones!
2007-01-31 04:00:03 · 1 answers · asked by dontwant2tellU 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Trail by fire I call it. Basically you set back and see if you actually have a best friend or not(just let the insecurities burn away by the cool reasoning). It’s the beauty of the best friend system is that after a few times like this you'll ether see that she isn't a best friend or that yes she is your best friend. Life test us all. This is important too, toward future relationships how you handle this. Be strong if your bond is good there is nothing to worry about nothing anyone else can do can ever really break it. Trust me; I have peps that went from being what I would call best friends to being my brother or my sister by passing these little trails( there not really little this is want makes people not just friends but family). Its part of it and not much different then when you get yourself into a physically intimate relationship and dealing with jealousy. Be brave and stand by how you feel about her because you have to do the right thing to and believe in her. If you find that she isn’t going away then be proud there is still many more trails ahead and you know you got not just a best friend but maybe even a sister to tear thru them.
2007-01-31 12:35:11 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋