How far can you stand when your partner is seduced by someone prettier and sexier than you?Can you bear with it?How do you overcome it...even i know jealousy cant solve the problems but how can you control?
2007-01-31 03:59:51 · 11 answers · asked by truth set free 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First of all, it takes two to tango, He ain't no victim.
If he really respects you, he won't fall into that trap.
Good luck
2007-01-31 04:12:53 · answer #1 · answered by Blunt 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At most, they could take it as a compliment that that person liked them. It is an ego boost. If some smokin' hot guy is attracted to you, it makes you feel good, doesn't it? That's as far as it should go, though. To me, even the temptation to do anything is hurtful. When my husband had a lot of marital problems, I worked with this really good-looking guy, who I knew, had even been with, from before. He was married, too, at the time, but unhappily. He always flirted with me and talked about how he regreted not giving a relationship with me a real chance. He always favored me at work (he was a supervisor) and stood close to me. Of course, it was flattering when my husband didn't pay any attention to me, he didn't even acknowledge me when I came home at night, didn't even look up from the TV or say hi. He'd just go to bed after we ate supper. It's a lot better now, but anyway. I was flattered and it made me feel sexy and attractive and all, but I love my husband. I would take that feeling home and turn it into confidence to "wow" him again. It usually didn't work, but I was never tempted to do anything with the other guy.
2007-01-31 12:42:27 · answer #2 · answered by Lady in Red 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that one cannot be seduced unless they allow it. Your partner needs to stop this now and tell this person that this type of behavior is intolerable. Remember it takes 2 to tango.
2007-01-31 12:21:25 · answer #3 · answered by Bridgette B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming he's your husband, right? If so, remember he married you. Women find men attractive who are taken. Does she flirt right in front of you? Then take your man hold him close and give him a big kiss! He's yours! Doesn't it make you feel good women are into your man? That means he's hot! Besides she probably isn't any more attractive than you are!
2007-01-31 12:16:00 · answer #4 · answered by SavvyGrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard sometimes. When you are jsut in a normal situation and a hotter, younger thing is flirting then you just have to ignore. If it's more serious then you have to leave.
2007-01-31 12:05:38 · answer #5 · answered by jrhod263 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Luckily, we don't ourselves in situations where such a thing might happen. We're pretty low-key, and don't socialize much, so seduction by someone else has never been an issue.
2007-01-31 12:33:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is seducing him in front of me, and he ain't handling it, then I handle it. She's letting me know that she doesn't care that I'm there and that she could have my man, and he would be supporting her if he didn't stop it. So both would catch my wrath.
2007-01-31 12:23:50 · answer #7 · answered by Ydua R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
work on ur looks.get a makeover and then get someone to flirt with you before your husbands eyes and see
2007-02-01 14:31:13 · answer #8 · answered by sharonz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spit in her face and then scratch her eyes out. Your territory!! The women in the bar where my boyfriend used to work called me his "guard dog". That's how I like it!
2007-01-31 12:10:22 · answer #9 · answered by me! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
where is your husband that he is being seduced?
2007-01-31 12:08:10 · answer #10 · answered by gabby 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋