ok so me and my bf were at his house studying for a history test,and we were alone in his house. and so he was like "did u really think we would be studying" i was like yeah??and maybe watch t.v. hes never pressured me for sex and thats good. but he was like "you no i love you" and i told him i no and he came and he unbottened my shirt and unhooked my bra, and he started kissing me,then he started taking off his pants the i took off mine, well then we had sex, after that i went home cuz i didnt no wat to say, i mean i enjoyed every seconed of it but i dont no if im pg, we did it 3 weeks ago and i was supossed to get my period like last week,(oh he wasnt a virgin, i was) and im really scared, if i am im not getting an abortion(im not gonna kill a baby cuz I was irresponsible). i dont wanna tell my mom cuz she doesnt like him and she would get really mad if she found out i was having sex, what should i do, my bf nos i think im pg, what do i do, oh i havent been stessin over this either.
2007-01-31 03:56:02 · 12 answers · asked by MELOSA 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
cuz i no stess can make yur period go all crazy
2007-01-31 03:56:32 · update #1
The best thing to do is go and buy a pregnancy test. Take the test and then you will know if you are. If you are then you need to let your mother know so that she can help you out. Sometimes stress will make you be late with your period. If you aren't pregnant then you should really consider either not doing it again or talk to your mother about birth control. It is really hard to be a mom at all but at a young age, it is even harder. The sooner you find out the better.
2007-01-31 04:05:58 · answer #1 · answered by tweety 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Take a test first then go from there: If you do not chart or monitor your fertility in any way, and you think you may have conceived, you should wait 19 days (or longer) after having sex to test. Why 19?! Sperm can live approximately 5 days in the proper environment; if the sperm managed to live until you popped an egg, the actual conception could have taken place several days after the sex act that got the sperm there. To make sure you're not testing too early, assume the sperm had very long lives (5 days is considered a very long sperm life) and that conception occurred then. Then allow 14 days for the embryo to implant and develop enough hCG to show up on a pregnancy test (96% of pregnant women will test positive by then.)
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If you are pregnant then fess up and tell your mom cause she will find out sooner or later and if your not get on birth control.
2007-01-31 12:02:56 · answer #2 · answered by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well first off if he wasn't a virgin then I would be more worried about having contracted and STD. 1 in 4 sexually active teens has an STD. http://www.sadd.org/stats.htm#sex
second I applaud you for not wanting an abortion. I people really truly knew what they were doing to "their" body they wouldn't want to take the risk.
Third if you are pregnant then you need to tell your mom. Even if she doesn't like your bf, and by the sounds of it she had every right to not like him, she still will need to know about it as hard as it is. you could get a counselor involved and have a discussion with her with your counselor in the room that way she cant' get too mad at you because the counselor is there. I don't think your mom will be as mad as you think she will.
My friend's daughter got pregnant at 16 and he was pretty peeved Oh my was he peeved but after about 2 weeks his anger subsided and he dealt with the fact that he was gonna be a grandpa at 32. He had her young tried to tell her not to do it but she did anyways. But your mom won't be mad at you forever if she does get mad. She will be a little happy in the end because you are going to be having her grandchild. So talk to your counselor take a pregnancy test get in to see a doctor and tell your mom. Good luck with all this. You are being responsible for your actions and that shows maturity.
2007-01-31 12:11:16 · answer #3 · answered by WINGS 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
id talk to your mum if i was you, you may be suprised at how she copes with it and what she says and does. but first things first BUY CONDOMS FOR NEXT TIME .. or just make sure he doesnt *** in u!!!!!!! and while your buying condoms buy a pregnancy test. if your too scared to buy one then go to your doctors ..... you wont know if ur pregnant or not until you either go to the doctors, buy a pregnancy test or you start to show! and if u r pregnant then tell your mum sooner rather than later!
2007-01-31 12:12:11 · answer #4 · answered by dawsonboy09 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take a pregnancy test right away to see if you are pregnant. if it's positive then tell your mom. have her take you to the doctor to be checked. if the test comes back negative still tell your mom. next time you decide to have sex use birth control and a condom.
2007-01-31 12:07:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Take a pregnancy test right away, so you know if you are pregnant or not, then if you are....you should tell your mother, because I'm sure she'll help you out with your decision on where to go from there.
2007-01-31 12:02:19 · answer #6 · answered by Rocker Chick 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
you need to take a pregnancy test, threes lots of places like planned parent hood that will give you one for free, if you are you need to talk to you mom. all so if your not you should get put on the pill to protect your self in the futcher
2007-01-31 12:40:34 · answer #7 · answered by cowgrl3611 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your parents because you are going to need their support. Yes, they will get upset and you may lose your b/f, but you made a decision you shouldn't have, you know it, and that's life. If you are pregnant you aren't left with a whole lot of choices.
2007-01-31 12:51:32 · answer #8 · answered by snddupree 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would try a home pregnancy test. They are not too expensive these days and are pretty accurate.
Good Luck!
2007-01-31 12:03:05 · answer #9 · answered by ohenry524 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hey i was through the same stuff and my grandma hated my boyfriend i told she going to deal because the fact that i could be pregnact.....what are u waiting for in to take a test okay tell me how it was okay later i hope this helps..
~alyssa~
2007-01-31 12:04:50 · answer #10 · answered by lovealyssasteen 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋