People are saying rumors about me.... and I know that they are not true, so what would you do? thks everybody
2007-01-31 03:54:31 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
yeah but, my "friends" are deleting me in 360 Yahoo
2007-01-31 03:59:33 · update #1
My advise is just to keep your friends close. If your friends are the people you think they are they will stand by you and stand up for you. You also need to be willing to stand up for yourself though. And you probably want to start some really nasty rumors about whoever started the rumors about you, but don't do that. That will only make things more complicated. And if someone confronts you about the rumors being spread about you just simply let them know they're wrong and move on. I know it's hard not to care what other people think, but you need to remember that rumors don't last forever. Soon enough people will forget all about the rumors being spread about you and will move on to the next new gossip. But just remember what i said to begin with...keep your friends close and you should be fine. And not only that you can think of this as a way to find who your TRUE friends are because those are the ones who stay by your side :)
2007-01-31 07:51:44 · answer #1 · answered by lil_jynx13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the long-run these people and thier opinions will not be worth a dime. Just continue diong what you know is right and concentrate on becoming successful. This will prove your value as a person. Remember the religious leaders of Jesus day called him a liar, blasphemer, sinner. He was none of those things! He did the job he came here to do, and HE turned out a sucess, and those Pharisees are long forgotten!
2007-01-31 04:04:16 · answer #2 · answered by keri l 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At my age...I figure if they are talking about me,someone else is getting a rest.
I just got here and having to leave again shortly. But I can guarantee you...I won't say anything negative nor pass on anything negative
about you, or anyone else.
Hope you have a wonderful day!
2007-01-31 04:03:01 · answer #3 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If people are spreading untrue rumors about you it does not matter. People who are your friends will know. And who cares about the rest. My sponsor always tells me it is none of my dang business what others think of me. Good luck.
2007-01-31 03:57:22 · answer #4 · answered by Joni J 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
1. find out who started them
2. get your friends on your side
3. confront the rumor starter
if they dont stop there are three ways to go:
a. talk to the counselor on campus
b. stoop to their level and spread roumors about them
c. do nothing
if you know they are not true, just get over it. you are so much better then them.
2007-01-31 04:00:30 · answer #5 · answered by Kathy23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them by all means.
Do not even respond to them
And the ones who are deleting you as "Friend" were never your friends at all.
You will find new ones.
I'm but ugly,still get friends from around the world:P.Dragon.
Don't let your hair hang down,girl.
2007-01-31 04:46:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 25,and I hope that stage of life is over!But at this stage,all the people who I am close know me well,and wouldn't believe what they heard,and if they asked me about something,I know they would take my word over what they heard from someone else!
2007-01-31 04:00:23 · answer #7 · answered by molliehollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have downstairs neighbors who suddenly are so mad at me they could piss chili sauce. I'm 55, so I just ignore it. If they come to face me (which the big-shots haven't yet) I will have only 3 words to say to them before I walk away, gfy!
2007-01-31 04:02:06 · answer #8 · answered by Bud's Girl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is happening to me too,I am just ignoring it.I have stated that what they are saying is not true,now I can only wait and let the people who are really not my Friends drop away till this is done.I hope it stops for you,it is never fun but we do learn who we can turn to when this happens
2007-01-31 04:05:13 · answer #9 · answered by Wish 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would just try to ignore it. You know the old saying sticks and stones may break my bones but names will never hurt me. I know how hard it is to ignore but just try your best to keep your cool and see how things work out.
2007-01-31 03:59:24 · answer #10 · answered by angelofgothic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋