my best friend is 15 and i found out that she smokes weed... we live very far away from eachother.. i told her that i do not like it that she smokes weed but i am veryy worried... i have no way of knowing what she id doing since we live miles and miles and miles apart... she has been my best friend since pre school.... should i tell her mom?i would rather have my best friend be mad at me than something happen to her... so should i tell her mom... or just leav eit be... i dont want her 2 start other drugs... please help i am sooo worried about her. thnx
2007-01-31 03:37:20 · 6 answers · asked by hello123 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you need to take it easy T P. it's just pot were talking about here. please deal with your friend rationally. is she smoking 24 hrs a day or just on the weekend? only if it looks like your friend is in real danger like if she gets on coke or is talking about running away or something like that..THEN by all means alert her parents. but if your friend seems to be ok but they still smoke pot you prolly shouldn't worry. pot NEVER killed anybody. I'll tell you what could kill somebody. Throwing a person in jail for smoking grass. How would you like that if your friend got you locked up?
2007-01-31 18:07:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I look at it like this...would you rather have a live Ex friend or a dead deceased friend? When you have the answer then either pick up that phone and make the hardest phone call of your life and save your best friend or stop talking to her at all, ignore her and what is happening to her, turn your back on the friendship and find you a new best friend. Drugs are a mean and nasty thing to have to deal with on any level, whether it be you or a friend doing them. They destroy lives, whether it is friendship, marriage or parent/child relationship drugs don't really care. If your friend is 15 now and smoking weed, try to picture her at 18 shooting up. Please make that call, if you can't go to a trusted adult friend or councilor and let them do it for you.
2007-01-31 03:51:38 · answer #2 · answered by sassywv 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should chill out and....if your worried about her health....then buy her a vaporizer they eliminate almost all harmful stuff from weed. You are probally young and still let people think for you so my advice is open your eyes and do as much research as you can. Get more then one view point...think for your self, this IMO is one of the major problems america has...they let stupid laws and propaganda run there lives....The only Bad thing about weed is that it can slowly damage your lungs....you arent going to go shoot anyone....you arent going to be any different.
2007-02-01 13:19:12 · answer #3 · answered by Hex 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her mom. Smoking/ Drinking/ Drugs are not the answer.
2007-01-31 03:42:49 · answer #4 · answered by retooser 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
chill out and smoke a joint with your friend, dont get her in sh*t, cause shes not gonna be doin heroin in 3 years just because she smokes a bit of herbal now. just as long as she doesnt overdo it dont worry about it
2007-01-31 10:38:14 · answer #5 · answered by a-roc 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
wow, it's only weed.
she most likely won't start other drugs.
and if she does, she's an idiot.
2007-02-02 18:12:45 · answer #6 · answered by Kat 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋