Why i shouldnt do what i want?

Question

do i have to care about what people think about the things i do and the things i say as long as im not offending or hurting any one??
you think its wise just to forget about human shackles and do what you enjoy doing?!

Answer 1

all that glitters is not gold.There are a lot things that are fun,intriguing,exciting,mysterious.Many of these things appear harmless,until you have done them.I am am an old old man.I think that all people(at one time or another) ask your question of themselves.I have through trial and error have opted for my guidelines,this.Think about what you,and ask yourself if you would want that done around you.If you sincerely feel that your actions are not offensive,then do it,remembering that you may not like every thing I do,and I may not like all you do.Talking is one of our most important means of expressing what we feel.. People hear what you say,when you say something to a person or around people you are projecting what you want them to see.Do what you say and mean what you say.Remember you are telling people what you want them to think of you.Dont be inconsiderate of people,don't be rude and don't be mean.If you can do these things and you can,there will be no shackles.The things you like today, you may not like tomorrow.All that glitters is not gold.You will do just fine.You show that by asking.That means you care!For that alone I commend you.You will do fine!

Answer 2

no you don't have to care about what people think of you.

I do think it is wise to live life as you see fit and not trespass on others or bring harm to yourself. if you can look at yourself in the mirror every morning and be pleased with the person looking back at you then you are doing the right thing. if you feel shame for your behavior/actions/words then perhaps you should take a break and figure out why and how to change that.

Would you be happy if you lived your life always worrying what everyone thinks of you? If those people who pass judgment on you cease to exist after tomorrow will your life change that drastically?

Answer 3

The question is not why I shouldn't do what I want? Instead I suggest an indicative "Why I should do to others as I want them to do for me". This will insure that you will not be offending or hurting anyone since of course, you do not want to be offended or hurt do you?

Answer 4

Yes and no. Slow down and think about the long term issues associated with "what you want to do". Are you really hurting yourself in the long run? Opinions are just that, opinions. But don't just shrug them off as everyone telling you what to do. They care or they would say anything.. so listen and then do as you please with reason....With Reason...

Answer 5

I truly believe to be happy in this life you must do whatever you can to reach your goals...as long as know one gets hurt along the way...A lot of this is learning how to believe in yourself,,,and trust in yourself....Finding your own way in this crazy world....

Answer 6

There is one other person you must be care not to hurt in the process - yourself.

Answer 7

Yes, you should do what you want, because hell itself is paved with people who try to not offend others.

Answer 8

YES YES YES!!!! The clock is ticking babe. One day they will lay you down in the earth. Get moving! Get what you want, do what you want, let them hate, it is not your fault they are cowards.

Answer 9

you should do what you want because in the end your going to anyway .if you can do what you enjoy doing and dont mind the negitive coments you well get .then enjoy

Answer 10

as long as youre not hurting anyone yes- but dont hurt yourself either.