Why am i like this?

Question

I am quiet, have no creativity, cant make jokes and not social. I want to also make jokes and not be so quiet all the time in school or soon i will be bullied probably. My friend will be bored to death around me soon. I am adventurer/peaceloving type of guy.

Answer 1

You are my dear friend. You are. Time makes you grow as what you are. You are what you think of what you feels and what you are experience. You're not perfect as anyone else that's why you are quiet, have no creativity, can't make jokes and not social enough. You just need yourself. You are normal. I been through your situation. Yeah! They're much likely to bully becouse you are not active to do a thing such hobbies, sports, activities or anything that makes you move in physical. I suggest that you take sometimes walking along the beach in the morning and think what you most likely to do hard as you can. Years pass before, I known as geek@nerdy becouse I am also quiet and so on just like you. But then I just go for cycling@travelling across my entire 10km and more away from my parents home for a day. My parents used to worried for me.... really. Then I back home. I got a lot of story to tell everyone. :).

Answer 2

Maybe you are just too nervous and have some social anxiety. I remember I was like that in middle school but then in high school i really opened up more. Used to be really quiet, reserved, shy, and no sense of humor. But now I pretty much the opposite. It also depends who you hang out with.

Sports is always a good way to open up and build character or any other team or group activities.
I'm not sure how old you are, but if you are at least 14 or 15 then alcohol helps loosen people up. I know that initially sounds bad and i'm sure tons of people will say it's a horrible idea, but if you can handle drinking and are not excessive about it, be careful b/c it's easy to drink too much, have some drinks with people. But some people shouldnt drink that young, but for some its alright as long as you can handle it and dont get into trouble. be able to loosen up drunk will help make you more outgoing when you're sober too. Smoking weed in high school helped me loosen up too. But you know yourself better than I do obviously, so what works for me may not work for you. Sports or extra-curricular activities might be a better fit then. But if you are in college or over 18 I would recomend just have some cocktails or beer. I went to a college with a lot of quiet, shy, nerdy people (UC San Diego) and many didn't drink until they came to college. I've seen so many once quiet, shy people open up and be loose and become the person they always wanted to be. I'm not saying drink anytime of the day when you want to socialize, mainly at night and at parties or bars. Once you loosen up while you're drinking you'll find it easier to loosen up and be out going when you're sober. Booze can be a good or a VERY bad thing, just remember to be responsible about it. Don't be afraid to try new things either.

Answer 3

Well why don't you try something different.
Not everyone is capable of being socialable and laughable and creativity.
But you can change who you are to what you want to be.
The next time you think of something funny, but you may not think people will laugh. Say it anyways.
It doesn't matter whether or not they laugh at it, It shows and it proves something to you, that you are capable of doing just that.

Answer 4

well.....IF you are an adventure loving guy....be adventurous...try out all the possibilities...just going u to soemone and talking random like youve known that person is an adventure...try it...
if you are a peace loving guy....that might mean a lot....maybe no-fight guy...maybe no-nonsense guy...maybe no-waste-time guy....maybe no-talking guy.....forget all that....dont go to ppl and say "im a peace-loving man"....say you are adventurous....

trust me....its rare that ppl will come talk to ppl who are quite....to understand that they can be social too...you HAVE to go up to ppl and TELL them you are a cool person....you can talk and make jokes too....start off by getting into chats and DISAGREEING with any topic going on....when you say no i dotn agree with it....then try to prove it...by saying ANYTHING....even if its crap...they will listen or laugh at your humor....
once you get started....things will be easier....and just go talk...who cares....if ppl dont lsn or go away...they will once ro twice...then they wont....even if they do, leave them...go to someone else....you will make everyone friend this way....

Answer 5

how3 does this have to do with travel? maybe you need to get out and travel aqnd maybe talk

Answer 6

just be urself!!that's all.