Last night while we were having "S" my husband told me he dreamed he had "S" with my 13 year old sister.
I don't know why, but it was very disturbing. My sister is very attractive and has a fully developed, slim body for her age, and most men would find her attractive.
Maybe it was the fact that he told me during "S" that bothered me the most, because then an image of it popped up in my head, and totally killed the mood. I was wondering if it was an explicit, vivid dream, or a fantasy dream.
Am I nuts for letting this bother me so much? Women, would you be angry at your husbands if they told you while you were having "S"? Men, have you ever dreamed or fantasized about having "S" with your wife's younger relative? Is it a perfectly normal thing for men to dream about? Please let me know. No jokes or sarcastic answers please.
2007-01-31 02:34:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
my husband is 26 and i am 19
2007-01-31 03:05:37 · update #1
I think that this is sick. He is sick for saying something like that to you and I'm concerned about you for telling it in a public place like this where children might read it. If he really thought such a thing then he is a pervert.
2007-01-31 02:46:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 5⤋
If he had said he had a disturbing dream about your sister while having a normal conversation with you, then I would say it was probably more a dream than anything else. But while having sex with you?...That's freaky and would disturb most people. This is very difficult to answer, but since my fist gut reaction is "pervert" it might still a little to early to run. I would watch his behavior from now on...like is he talking to in chat rooms and if so with whom. Don't let your sis come by without you being there. I know this might be too much, but I don't know how else you would handle this unless it is to cut and run. Having dreams of sleeping with someone younger is normal if the person was of age..but anything less than 18 would scare me to death. Pedophiles are not scary looking men anymore, they are your next door neighbors and the man we sleep with. I am so sorry this happened to you, but keep your eyes wide open.
2007-01-31 02:56:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont' know about anyone else, but if my husband had told me this during "s", it would have ended it right there and then. This would be something he should have kept to himself and also.. she is only 13 and he is having dreams about a young girl.. that alone would really bother me and make me think that he had something wrong with him dreaming of having sex with a child (no matter how attractive) and my sister. I would be turned off for quite some time I think. Bad timing and bad idea to even admit he had this dream.
2007-01-31 02:45:56 · answer #3 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I'm be upset for a few reasons....
A) Pissed because he told me about the dream during sex (Way to kill the mood! What a turn off)
B) Pissed that he told me he had a dream about having sex with my sister. Period! (seriously, if you had a dream about his brother, would you tell him. NO. Its just a dream.. so why cause issues about something meaningless. I've had dreams about my bf's friends.. I sure as **** don't tell him about it! It doesn't mean anything, in fact I don't even find them attractive like that, so why make a big issue out of nothing. Its better just not to say anything!)
C) Pissed that my sister is only 13. That borderlines creepy in my books. I don't care how hot or matured she is!
2007-01-31 02:52:05 · answer #4 · answered by CEP 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay that is just plain wrong.
1 he should have never told you at all.
2 she is 13 maybe she needs to stay away from him just so he don't get no funny ideas. That means don't you ever let him be alone with her EVER!
3 his a** would have been out of that bed so fast,.
4 now he has damaged your marriage cause now you are always going to wonder what he is thinking during sex,
5 GET HIM SOME HELP
2007-01-31 03:24:29 · answer #5 · answered by Emptiness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for me thats a no no,in my words once i'm with one person i will not change because of any reason, to tell you the truth i'm a single burner.If i was married my wife would be sure of me because i'm a very well trusted person. what i'm saying is that if your husband loves you very much he would not think of doing that or dream about these kind of things,besides your sister is a thirteen year old !!!!!!!!!
2007-01-31 03:10:29 · answer #6 · answered by alwaynemckenzie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH MY GOD!!!! After you slapped the hell out of him what did he say? First you need to block whatever channel Jerry Springer is on and I sure wouldn't feel comfortable with him around my sister at all. She is 13 for Gods sake, that is sick on soooo many levels. I would have thrown up on him right before I kicked him out of bed.
2007-01-31 03:34:48 · answer #7 · answered by Shannon B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is having "s"? Anyway I think you mean SEX. If he told you he was thinking of having sex with a 13 year old he has issues. He needs some serious help!
2007-01-31 03:19:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. It's suck! It's very ridiculous. Have a sex with relative of my wife?? I don't understand why your husband told you his weird dream. I think it's your husband's tongueslip.
2007-01-31 02:47:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all, 13 years old?????? It doesn't matter what the hell she "looks" like....she is still 13 YEARS OLD!
Your husband sounds screwy. And to even SAY that to you....Gross!
What the hell is this world coming to?!!!
2007-01-31 02:48:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you stay.See how he is around your little sister.??If he is interested more than before than you have troubles on your hands. If it happens again look out.
Best Of Luck
2007-01-31 03:19:19 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋