Orgasms????

Question

i am 18 so dont tell me i am to young

what is an orgasm i know how u get them but what do they feeel like?

Answer 1

You'll know. They tend to take your breath away and make all of your muscles tense up at once. After you've had one, you'll learn to tell when one is starting, and that makes it all the more exciting.

Answer 2

Orgasm is the conclusion of the plateau phase of the sexual response cycle, shared by both men and women. During orgasm, both men and women experience quick cycles of muscle contraction in the lower pelvic muscles, which surround both the anus and the primary sexual organs.

Orgasms in both men and women are often associated with other involuntary actions, including vocalizations and muscular spasms in other areas of the body. Also, a generally euphoric sensation is associated with orgasm.

Afterwards, orgasm generally causes perceived tiredness, and both men and women often feel a need to rest. This is recently attributed to the release of prolactin.[1] Prolactin is a typical neuroendocrine response in depressed mood and irritation.[2] A recent study at the University of Groningen has indicated significant differences in brain activity during the female and male orgasm.[3] PET scans showed that both the female and male orgasm 'shut down' areas in the brain associated with anxiety and fear (the amygdala). It was found that the male orgasm focused the brain on sensory input from the genitals more than a female orgasm.

its the best thing a woman can ask for.

Answer 3

An orgasm is always an earth-moving experience and there is something wrong with a woman if she is unable to reach orgasm.

Some women have orgasms and don’t know it. Some women do not experience orgasm in the sense of feeling their pelvic floor muscles contract. They do however reach a peak of arousal after which they feel very relaxed and contented, the same feelings other women experience after orgasm. By contrast, women who get very aroused and do not experience orgasm will sometimes feel "nervous" or "edgy" or even an aching discomfort in their pelvis.

"Normal" women reach orgasm through intercourse.

Only about a third of women experience orgasm regularly during intercourse. A third can reach orgasm with intercourse but need extra stimulation. A third never achieve orgasm during intercourse but can by manual and oral stimulation. Having orgasms by means other than intercourse is a normal variation of female sexuality. In the past, people thought that "mature" women had their orgasms with intercourse; you will sometimes run across an older book that has this view. However, laboratory studies in the 1960’s showed that an orgasm is an orgasm no matter which way you obtain it. How a woman reaches an orgasm has nothing to do with her mental health or emotional maturity.

Inability to reach orgasm, or anorgasmia means a woman is "frigid" or that there is something seriously wrong with her or her relationship.

* Women who were able to have orgasms in the past but can no longer do so may be suffering from a medical problem or a side effect from medication.
* Women who have never had an orgasm may never have learned what type and duration of stimulation they need.


If a woman cannot reach orgasm, then her partner is not a skillful lover.

While there are many ways a loving partner can help a woman reach orgasm, in the end, a woman is responsible for her own sexual pleasure. That does not mean her partner should not be involved. Communication between partners is very important. It is up to the woman to inform her partner her likes and dislikes in their love making.

A woman has to have an orgasm in order to enjoy sex. This myth seems to be more common among men than among women.

Many women enjoy the closeness and physical intimacy of sex and are satisfied even if they do not, or do not always, have an orgasm.

What can you do?
Relax: It is possible to try too hard. Focus on enjoying the process, not on whether or not you will have an orgasm.
Communicate

Communicate with your partner your preferences when it comes to sex. Your partner cannot read your mind.
Encourage

If you or your partner are doing something pleasurable, encourage your mate to continue.
Enjoy

Learn to enjoy and feel comfortable with your sexuality. Your current inability to have an orgasm is not a reflection of your femininity, your psychological or emotional health. Putting yourself down just makes it that much more difficult.
Fantasize

Some women have trouble concentrating during sex. If that is the case, you may wish to fantasize, i.e., thinking about something sexual may excite you and may reduce negative emotions. If you feel that you are very close to achieving an orgasm, alternate tightening and relaxing your pelvic floor muscles. This may sometimes trigger a real orgasm.
Arouse

For some couples, love making ends once the man ejaculates. Often, at this point the woman is very aroused. If this is the case, you might ask your partner to continue stimulating you with his hands or his mouth once he is finished. Some women feel uncomfortable doing this, thinking that this would be selfish or that their partner would be bored. In fact, your partner may enjoy giving you pleasure. Rather than being selfish, you are giving your partner the chance to please you.

What about Vibrators?

Vibrators, either plug-in or cordless, supply more intense stimulation than can be obtained with either intercourse or manual stimulation. They can be especially helpful if you have an illness that makes it hard to reach orgasm, such as multiple sclerosis. They can be used by you or together with your partner as part of your love making.

Suggested Books

There are several good books available with "exercises" to help you reach orgasm. These usually focus on learning to have an orgasm by yourself and then, once you know the desired manner and amount of stimulation you need, you can teach your partner how to please you. It can also be helpful for your partner to read one of these books. Women of some religious faiths may sometimes feel that self-stimulation, or masturbation, is wrong. Others of the same faith feel that since the long-term goal is to improve the relationship then self-stimulation is okay in the short term.

1. For Yourself: The Fulfillment of Female Sexuality: by Lonnie Barbach. Written over 20 years ago by a woman who ran groups for pre-orgasmic women, this book has a lot of personal stories. Women like it because they see they are not alone and they can usually identify with one or other of the stories.
2. Becoming Orgasmic: by Julie Hieman and J. LoPiccolo. A bit more clinical than the previous book, it also has exercises to help a woman think about where she learned her ideas about sex and whether these might not be realistic.
3. The Gift of Sex: by Cliff and Joyce Penner. Written by a Christian couple, this is a very frank and helpful book, especially for women who find some of the suggestions or assumptions in "secular" books objectionable.
4. L’orgasme au féminin; Christine L’Heureux, Montréal: L’Aurore, 1979.

If none of the books or suggestions are helpful, you might consider asking for referral to a sex therapist or psychologist specializing in treating sexual difficulties.

Answer 4

For your sex, I'm going to infer that if, you, reach a certain level of sexual pleasure (like critical mass), you may feel a tightness in your, well, I can't find a proper subsitution for vagina, but, yeah.

And, in a few seconds, and for a few girls, you may squirt.

Which, I think looks sexy.

But I'm nearly 13, Hell.

Answer 5

believe me you'll know when you get one if your partner wants you to have one and actually it's a realese of tenson from the intercourse and actually a lot of don't relize that they are having one and just pay close attention to it and you'll find out because i didn't know either

Answer 6

you are defiently not to young, its the point when you climax during sex. when it happens you will know.

Answer 7

They feel sooo damn good you'll wanna do it again

Answer 8

youll know, its like a rush, youll know.

Answer 9

have someone finger u or lick u or have sex

Answer 10

when you have one, you'll know. without a doubt, you'll know.