My fiance and i recently became sexually active and since i wasnt with anyone else prior to him he asked me if i want to try different things so i said sure. Well the more we try the more it gets wierd and pretty uncommon. hes been asking me to use objects to put up his *** and to me it sounds gay? i did it once or twice cuz he said he just wanted to feel it and see if he likes it and he really really liked it. He also tried it to me and i didnt like it so much. Prior to this he has been the straightest man i know. Am i freaking out or is this normal but not spoken about?
2007-01-31 02:23:08 · 14 answers · asked by Angelina A 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Lots of men enjoy anal stimulation. It doesn't mean they are gay.
Stimulation of the prostate gland is highly sensual. Just use plenty of lubricant as the tissue and muscles there are designed for expulsion, not insertion.
2007-01-31 02:36:28 · answer #1 · answered by Bob L 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Actually it is not uncommon but it is not that common. Your see many people are sexually stimulated via the area of the prostrate gland. With men it is accessable through the rectum. Than same area in women can be stimulated vaginally.
There are many "G" spots in many people and what may seem wierd is one way of bringing your loving partner pleasure. Any type of anal contact however can be a health issue in many ways so, use very good sanitary measures immediately after.
Being Gay is really more a state of mind rather than a state of sexual erotic zones. Although Gays and many advocates for this lifestyle will say otherwise.
I do not believe you fiance is gay, however before actually taking the relationship further you should have more communications of how you feel. You need to understand things about him and both of you need to understand how you feel about it.
Sex is a very important part of life together and each others likes and dislikes will play a huge part in the relationships longevity.
Good luck and please make it a point to communicate with him. Sex is important communications, a necessity.
2007-01-31 02:49:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who really knows, maybe he just gives off those 'vibes' because he is friendly towards gays and is maybe a little less masculine that what straight men are stereotyped to be.
2016-05-23 22:42:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because he likes something up his rear doesn't mean he's gay. He'd have to find men attractive and instead he's marrying you.
I don't think you have anything to worry about, necessarily, but the person you should be asking is him.
2007-01-31 02:30:30 · answer #4 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think this is normal. It is very pleasurable for me to have the prostate stimulated. Which you do not have, which is why you don't like it. Unless what he wants up his *** is another man's penis, then it's not gay.
2007-01-31 03:18:43 · answer #5 · answered by trivial 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many straight guys enjoy what your talking about.
If he's physically attracted to you, then he is either Bi or Straight.
Gay means he's attracted to guys only. Since nothing you've said gives any indication of that, he's not gay. Nothing you've said indicates any attraction to guys, so he's not likely to be Bi.
2007-01-31 02:30:28 · answer #6 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does your boyfriend have phone sex with other women, does he watch porn and justify it, does he have a white ring around the head of his....? Were you really a virgin before him..? It's hard to answer the present question seriously considering your previous ones.
2007-01-31 02:36:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
That doesn't mean he's gay in any way. Just that he likes taking it from behind, many people do.
2007-01-31 02:42:20 · answer #8 · answered by Ash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not gay at all!! whatever you are putting up there is just rubbing his prostate...which feels really good...so i'm told...i do it to my bf some times too...don't fret!! just be glad that he is comfortible enough with you to ask/let you do that to him!!!
2007-01-31 03:35:59 · answer #9 · answered by cantthinkofauseridsohereitis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
straight guys like things up there too...doenst mean gay if he likes it with you...now if he starts wanting a weinee up his shoot than youve got problems.
2007-01-31 02:29:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋