This lesbian courts you but your friend doesn't like her for you....at first you really don't like her because u don't want to be involve in a same sex relationship but then because of her care eventually u liked her....and somewhat miss her company.... and the time comes that both of you had to take it seriously she asked you about your status...is it a friend or something special....so after a period of time (months) of thinking you've decided to get into relationship with her just a try...but your friend doesn't know about this u friend knows that she courts you but ur frend doesn't know that there's something between you & her...and its so sad that as time goes by you've realized that you've just answered yes to the lesbian just because of "pity"...you really don't love her but ur concerned about her u don't want to lose her bec.. of friendship...so what you gonna do? if you r dat person r u going to tell to ur frend? is it wrong to like a lesbian?and r u going to end up the rel?
2007-01-31 02:15:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If you're not happy in your lesbian relationship with her and you just don't love her that way, then knock it on the head. you don't ant to be with her and she deserves to be with someone who does.
2007-01-31 02:24:06 · answer #1 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would it matter if your friend think she's good for you or not? It's your relationship.
But more importantly, why would you get into a relationship, a lesbian relationship at that, and you don't actually like the person?
You've probably screwed up more dating her and lying than just being honest, rejecting her and telling her why.
And yeah, you should end the relationship because it's no way fair to her.
2007-01-31 02:46:38 · answer #2 · answered by Ash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O.K. here is your best answer. Like Beth B said Don’t date someone you don’t want to date. ESPECIALLY IF YOUR NOT GAY AND SHE IS. Tell her what you said in this question. I think you’re a great person and I value our friendship but I can’t be in a romantic relationship with you. And the dreaded line. I hope we can still be friends. You are doing a disservice to yourself (the aggravation of being in a relationship you have to keep secret and don’t want to be in) and to her She deserves to be with someone that wants to be with her and eventually she will find someone who does not pity her but loves her. Your preventing that from happening by WAISTING HER TIME!!!
2007-01-31 02:33:50 · answer #3 · answered by angieward_2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uh, *if* I am reading your question correctly, you are dating someone you don't really care about because you feel sorry for her, and your friend doesn't like her, and you are not sure what to do??? Uh. Maybe. Okay.. don't date anyone you don't really want to date, and unless you're 12, don't let your friends dictate who you date. And perhaps take a creative writing class. Good luck.
2007-01-31 02:26:38 · answer #4 · answered by Beth B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What your friend thinks doesn't matter. Your friend is not in the relationship/budding relationship. If you put any creedence on what your friend has to say about your personal romantic life then you are not mature enough to have a romantic life.
2007-01-31 02:34:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Damnation. Reading this made me so dizzy I have to go lay down.
2007-01-31 02:23:41 · answer #6 · answered by castle h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too long to read ..i have a.d.d
2007-01-31 02:27:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋